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   %CHAOTIC FAMILY LIFE CHILDREN DEEPELY FELT SENSE 040926
%MUTUAL ACCEPTANCE RESPECT HONOR SUPPORT ADULT FEAR 040926
%EXCESSIVE WELTH HEALTH POWER DOCTRIN CERTAIN TRUTH 040926
 %ABSOLUTE INVULNERABILITY BINARY BIPOLAR DICHOTOMY 040926
 %TECHNOCRACY SOLUTIONS TRATIC DILEMMA CONFLICT SIN 040926

     Children who  have  grown up in chaotic  homes  where
adults  have  not and/or could not provide a  deeply  felt
sense of mutual acceptance, respect, honor and support ---
are  childern  who  are very unlikely  as  adults to  feel
profoundly  secure.    As adults they are likely  to  seek
absolute  assurances  of  security  and/or invulnerability
through excesses in regard to:

 1.  Wealth,
 2.  Power,
 3.  Doctrinal-certainties,
 4.  Absolute-truths,
 5.  Simplifications,
 6.  Reliance on binary-thinking,
 7.  Dichotomization of issues and conflicts,
 8.  Resource-consumption,
 9.  Simplistic  political solutions,
10.  Reliance upon domination, coercion and violence,
11.  Reliance  upon technocratic "solutions" to dilemmas,
12.  Trusting technologies, and matching dilemmas to them,
13.  Exclusivity, purifications, excommunications, etc.,
14.  Manipulations of perceptions, perspectives & truths.

     There is more at stake in how graciously children
are  nurtured in the first minutes,  hours,  days,  weeks,
months, and years of their lives --- than most people have
understood.

     "Chaos theory"  which grew out of  the semi-periodic-
cylces of weather,  has clarified that extreme differences
can  grow  out  of  small differences  ---  over  extended
periods of time.   The  cycles  of  birth,  evolving human
relationships,  misunderstandings,  death,  etc. are semi-
periodic in ways which suggest that some of the aspects of
chaos theory are often  likely to be present in  principle
--- if not in details.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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