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  %SMALL PRAYER CELLS GROUPS FAMILIES MEDITATE TRUE 040917
 %INTIMACY SANCTUARY SAFELY VULNERABLE OPEN HONESTY 040917
 %EXPOSE UNDERSTAND SUBVERT DOMINATIOIN SYSTEM MOBS 040917
%EXTREMISTS FUNDAMENTALISTS TERRORIST TECHNOCRACIES 040917
%CREATIVE REBELS TRUE LOVER PROPHET MYTH REDEMPTIVE 040917
%COERCION VIOLENCE CHAOS ORDERS CONFORMITY IDEAL IT 040917

     Small groups of True-Lovers play central roles in the
gracious  processes  of  a  community  transcending   "The
Domination  System"   as IT is led  by domineering-people;
because, the larger a group is, the more likely it is that
elements of "mob-psycholoy" will play dominant-roles with-
in  the relationships among members of  the larger  group.
"Mob-psychology"   is at heart  "The Domination System" at
work.  At-heart the "logic"  of "The Domination System" is
alienative, cruel,  mean,  disintegrative; its "reasoning"
is perverse.

     The smaller that a group is,  the more possible it is
for  the  members  of  the group  to  rebel  against  "The
Domination System"  and  be  "True-Lovers"  that ARE TRULY
COMMITTED TO:

1.  Transcending the "Mob-Psychology"   of "The Domination
System";   e.g.,   "The  Myth  of  REDEMPTIVE"   violence,
coercion, controls,  rejections,  rescues; conditions-for-
redemptive:  rewards,  punishments, rejections, terrorism,
excommunications, etc.

2.  Becoming  well informed about the differences  between
the false-bonding among  domineering-people who are using-
each-other-dishonestly in efforts to  be dominant; and the
true-bonding among "True-Lovers"  who are laying the  firm
foundations  for building  true-sanctuaries  within  which
they  work-cooperatively to anticipate and avoid dis-ease,
diseases,   mental-illnesses,   addictions,   codependent-
supporters, addictive-organizations,  addictive-societies,
addictive-cultures, addictive-religions, addictive-lovers,
etc.   ---  by cooperating with each other in honest risk-
management.

3.  Understanding  how  "The Domination System"   promotes
CHAOS within EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS by concentration  victims'
attention  upon asking and answering misleading  questions
such  as:   Who is good,  better and best?    Who is evil,
worse,   and worst?    What labels should be put  on  each
person?     Who  should be in control,   dominant?    What
technologies  and weapons can be used to force True-Lovers
to properly-surrender to Domination, and Conform?

4.  Understanding  how it is that True-Lovers  can  create
true-sanctuaries wherein all people can be secure-together
in     intimate-relationships    of    mutual-and-balanced
vulnerability ---  demonstrating:  civility,  hospitality,
openness,   honesty,   generosity,   distributive-justice,
deference,  tolerance, mutual-respect, sensitivity, agape,
and  other virtues which are the foundations for  personal
and communal integrities.

5.  RESISTING  all efforts of "The Domination System"   to
maintain dominance and control ---  while not surrendering
to or internalizing "The Domination  System's"  attitudes,
assumptions, myths, collusions, beliefs, technologies, and
weapons-of-mass-destruction;  e.g.,  remaining NON-VIOLENT
while  RESISTING-POWERFULLY in  "Speaking-Truth-to-Fallen-
Powers".

6.  Recognizing and publically describing how domineering-
people  have  abused humane-needs-for-intimacy  to  seduce
healthy-people  into abusive-relationships guided by  "The
Domination-System"   ---   to thereby  concentrate  power,
wealth  and influence  into  the hands of  relatively  few
domineering-people --- at the expense of many imprudently-
vulnerable-people  ---  in violation of the principles  of
distributive-justice.

7.  Recognizing   and   publically  describing   Military-
Industrial-Complexes  which are doing the bidding of  "The
Domination-System" in ways described above.

8.  Exposing  to  public view the perverse ways  in  which
dominant religious groups,  organizations and institutions
are   being  led  by  "The  Domination  System"    through
collusions,  dishonesty, and concentrations of "The Powers
That Be" into the hands of dominant leaders.

9.  Exposing  to  public view the perverse ways  in  which
dominant religious groups,  organizations and institutions
have  through  neglect and misleading teachings  ---   led
young  people  to be uninformed and confused  about  risk-
management within their evolving intimate relationships --
-   including being  uninformed and confused regarding the
basic facts about risk-managment  within evolving intimate
sexual  relationships with ---  domineering-people who are
not "True-Lovers" and often are addicts and/or codependent
supporters  ---  taking advantage of misleading religious:
myths,    cosmologies,  teachings,   traditions,    rules,
regulations, prohibitions,  proscriptions,  prescriptions,
scriptions  and  judgements as foci for  rebellion  and/or
obedience  ---  in   keeping   with    domineering-leaders
interpretations, uses and abuses.

10.  Clarifying the tragic consequences of the ancient and
modern versions of "The Myth of Redemptive Violence" which
seems to have first evolved in Babalyon, now known as Iraq
and much  in  the  news  because  of  modern  domineering-
people's being misled by "The Myth of Redemptive Violence"
and  is  similar  to  myths  about "redemptive": coercion,
management,      rescue,      salvation, excommunications,
rejections,  exclusions,  banishments, sacrifices, etc. in
confused mixes which lack integrity.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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