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%EXTREMISTS DOMINEERING UNBALANCED COURSHIPS LOVERS 040901
%MUTUAL COERCION VIOLENCE TERRORISTS METHODS DEVILS 040901
%EVIL RELATIONSHIPS MISLEADING QUESTIONS ESSENTIALS 040901
%FOUNDATIONS ENCOURAGE COOPERATION COLABORATION GOD 040901
%PREPONDERANCE FORCEFUL CONFORMITY IDEALS FORMS SEX 040901
 %SURVIVAL FITTEST DOMINEERING TRUE LOVERS COMMANDS 040901

     In courtships potential True-Lovers seek to encourage
each other to cooperate with each other in the building of
truly  integrative  relationships ---  in the  absence  of
domination,  controls, violence, dishonesty,  pretentions,
arrogance,   self-righteousness,  etc.   They seek  common
ground  that  can serve as the essential  foundations  for
their  future personal and communal integrities.   They do
not seek to promote conformity,  formalities,  or mutually
exclusive ideal-forms.   They seek to do all that they can
do cooperatively  to  insure  the survival of their  kind;
i.e. the survival of True-Lovers as an enduring "Species".
While   individuals   do  not  survive  as   the   fittest
individuals,   the "Species"  True-Lovers do survive  more
frequently than do violent domineering people.

     In  violenct  conflicts domineering  people  seek  to
force  each  other to conform to  each  other's  standards
within  prescribed  relationships ---  in the  absence  of
honesty and right-relationships.  They seek invulnerabilty
which "can"  serve  as the essential foundation  for their
exclusive  personal and/or communal securities.   They  do
not  seek  to promote personal or communal integrities  in
creative new ways.  They seek to do all that they "can" do
independently  to  insure  the survival of  themselves  as
dominant  individuals,  as  "superior"  individuals alone.
Because they all work to eliminate and destroy domineering
individuals  other-than-themselves;  domineering people do
succeed in preventing the survival of their generation  of
domineering  people  ---  but lay the foundations for  the
evolution  of  yet  another  generation  of  disintegrated
youths  into a new generation of disintegrative adults  as
loyal supporters of "The Myth of Redemptive Violence"  and
IT'S "DOMINATION SYSTEM" of coercion, controls,  violence,
wars, and decay.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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