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  %UNMASK EXPOSE REVEALING MYTH REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE 040828
 %DEVIL RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT ANGER 040828
  %REVENGE PUNISH NONCONFORMITY COMMANDMENT SCRIPTS 040828
 %AUTHORITIES PLAYWRITES DRAMA STAGE REAL LIFE GOOD 040828
 %GRACIOUS RESISTANCE NONVIOLENCE SUBVERT FALLEN IT 040828
 %ULTIMATE CONCERN IDOLATRY COMPLEMENTARL PEOPLE GO 040828

    To  deal graciously and effectively with  domineering
people  we need to understand their ultimate concerns and
motivations.

    The  Ultimate-Concerns  of  domineering-people  focus
upon   protecting   "The   Domination   System"   against
communications,  friendships,  intimacies,  behaviors and
writings which might expose the incoherent nature of "The
Domination  System"   as  regards  how  It-as-God   leads
DOMINEERING-PEOPLE into:

1.  Using  dishonesty,   deception, and  pretentiousness.
2.  Disregard  for  personal  and  communal  integrities.
3.  Reliance   upon  arrogance  and   self-righteousness.
4.  Reliance  upon  a preponderance of force  &  threats.
5.  Creating relationships of alienation &  estrangement.
6.  Denigrating True-Lovers within integrative relations.
7.  Opposing RESISTANCE  which is gracious & non-violent.
8.  Taking advantage of peoples' points  of  vulnerbilty.
9.  Projecting upon others one's own alienative vices.

    Of course all of the above efforts must be concealed!

    So long as "The Domination System"  which is  founded
upon  "The Myth  of  Redemptive Violence"   continues  to
conceal its disintegrative nature from most common people
---   so  long  will "The  Myth  of  Redemptive Violence"
continue to mislead  dommineering people AND most  common
people  about what they are complicit with as:   victims,
bystanders and/or active participants.  See Walter Wink's
book "The Powers That Be"  for more about "The Domination
System".
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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