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  %RELIABLY CARRY THROUGH INTENTIONS RESPOND DEVILS 040701
%EVIL RELATIONSHIP TRUE LOVER PLAN AHEAD NONVIOLENT 040701
 %ADOPT FLEXIBLE STANCE ATTITUES ASSUMPTIONS BELIEF 040701
 %CONVICTIONS IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES PERSPECTIVES 040701
 %SANCTUARY COMMUNITY TRANSCEND SUBVERT TEACHNOCRAT 040701
%HEALLTH POLARIZATION ALIENATION WOUNDS ANGER FALLS 040701

     In order to reliably carry through  our intentions to
respond-to-domineering-people  in-non-domineering-ways ---
True Lovers must:

     0. Study both Domineering and Non-Domineering ways.
     1. Plan-ahead for future eventualities.
     2. Adopt non-domineering attitudes.
     3. Adopt non-domineering assumptions.
     4. Adopt non-domineering beliefs.
     5. Adopt non-domineering convictions
     6. Adopt non-domineering ideals.
     7. Adopt non-domineering values.
     8. Adopt non-domineering principles.
     9. Adopt non-domineering training programs.
    10. Form true-sanctuary-communities.
    11. Transcend technocratic ways.
    12. Transcend dichotomous ways.
    13. Transcend exclusive ways.
    14. Transcend arrogance and self-righteousness.
    15. Transcend invulnerability.
    16. Transcend greed and power-hunger.
    17. Transcend fears and insecurity.
    18. Transcend coercion and violence.
    19. Transcend narcissism and provincialism.
    20. Transcend distributive injustice.

     Peacemaking is more challenging then is preparing for
unilateral    wars.     Peacemaking   entails    difficult
cooperation!

     To effectively discredit disintegrative life-styles:

     1.  We must avoid those behaviors which  are  clearly
associated with the life-styles we seek to discredit, and

     2.  Take care to emulate those behaviors which reveal
the  disintegrative effects of the life-styles we seek  to
discredit.

     To  discredit domineering-life-styles we  must  avoid
behaviors on-the-right below and emulate behaviors on-the-
left below:

Avoid Domineering Behaviors    Emulate Revealing Behaviors

Dishonesty                     Authenticity
Secrecy                        Openness
Unilateral Actions             Cooperative Actions
Arrogance                      Humility
Self-righteousness             Collaboration
Pretentiousness                Graciousness
Controls                       Liberations
Intolerance                    Integrations
Exclusivity                    Complementations
Judgmentalism                  Reconciliations
Perfectionism                  Hospitality
Contentiousness                Civility
Violence                       Gentleness
Terrorism                      Healing


     Domineering behaviors:

     1. Lack integrity,

     2  Entail  the use of techniques which try to conceal
        the   natural  consequences  of  the   domineering
        behaviors,

     3. Denigrate  people who seek to engage in  revealing
        behaviors, and

     4. Promote   dishonest   respect   for   people   and
        communities  which  lack   personal  and  communal
        integrity.

     The  above  considerations  are relevant  to  dealing
with: dictators, terrorists,  weapons of mass destruction,
the   doctrine  of  mutually  assured  destruction,    the
industrial-military-complex,  weapons  for poor countries,
unbalanced  national  budgets,   "The  Domination  System"
addictions, codependent-supporters, collusions, etc.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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