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%TRUE LOVERS AUTHENTIC BONDING FRIENDSHIPS INTIMATE 040602
 %SEXUAL BONDS GENTLE MUTUALITY UNILATERAL COERCION 040602
  %KIND HOSPITALITY AUTHORITATIVE COMMANDS PATIENCE 040602
%CERTIFIED CONTENTIOUS GENEROUS SHARING NARCISSISTS 040602
 %DESCRIBE PRESCRIBE PROSCRIBE DESIRE HONEST POWERS 040602
%DOMINATION SYSTEMS ANALYSIS CONCENTRATE CORRUPTION 040602

      True  and  authentic bonding within friendships  and
intimate/sexual relationships flow from:

      1.  Gentle-mutuality, not unilateral-coercion.
      2.  Kind-hospitality, not authoritative-commands.
      3.  Patient-civility, not certified-contentiousness.
      4   Generous-sharing, not narcissistic-egos.
      5.  True-descriptions, not pro/pre-scriptions.
      6.  Authentic-desires, not absolute-demands.
      7.  Power-sharing, not power-concentrations.
      8.  Wealth-distributions, not wealth-concentrations.
      9.  Distributive-justice, not retributive-justice.
     10.  Pleasures-together, not scripts/excommunication.

      With  the  absence  of true  and  authentic  bonding
within  friendships and intimate/sexual relationships  ---
there is the absence of:   dynamic-stability,  creativity,
imagination,   honesty, learning,  personal-integrity  and
communal integrity.  No mortals have the authority, power,
knowledge,  technology, means,  or other ability to change
the  above  described flow-pattern of true  and  authentic
bonding    within    friendships    and    intimate/sexual
relationships.   Attempts  to the contrary generate  evil-
relationships, alienation, estrangement, excommunications,
etc.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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