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%ESSENTIAL STEP TOWARD CONFLICT RESOLUTION BUILDING 040511
 %FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY JUDGMENTS 040511
%PATTERNS BEHAVIORS ASSUMPTIONS ATTITUDES INTENTION 040511
%PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS STANDARDS COMMANDMENTS 040511
   %NATURAL CAUSE EFFECT EVIL RELATIONSHIPS HEALTHY 040511
 %COOPERATION COLLABORATION CIVILITY RECONCILE HEAL 040511

      We need to be clear about the various bases that can
exist  in terms of which  to make judgments regarding  how
much we can safely respect and trust a person's pattern of
behaviors; e.g.,

      1.  How  fully  the  person conforms  to  a  set  of
prescriptions,   proscriptions  and  comparable  standards
which define what is proper and what is improper behavior.

      2.  Discernment   of   the   person's    intentions,
attitudes and assumptions in comparison to those which are
approved and proper.

      3.  The  natural  effects of the  person's  behavior
patters   upon  personal  and  communal  integrities   and
integrations;   upon  the  qualities  of diverse  personal
relationships.

      4.  The  person's contributions to the  facilitation
and promotion of:   cooperation, collaboration,  civility,
reconciliation, healing and open-and-honest-dialogue.

      5.  How  well  the  person's  pattern  of  behaviors
supports   respect  for  and  support  of  the   essential
foundations for personal and communal integrities.

      Note  that the concerns indicted at the top  of  the
list and the concerns indicated at the bottom of the  list
will be in conflict with each other in practice.   It will
be  difficult,   if not impossible,  to fit  both sets  of
concerns  into  a coherent package which  can  demonstrate
integrity.    The  contrasting sets of concerns are  based
upon mutually incompatible assumptions, beliefs, attitudes
and  intentions.    We  need to bring  such  instances  of
incompatibility  out  into the open for  open  and  honest
discussion ---  so as to truly resolve the conflicts which
are all too often hidden, not recognized and not resolved.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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