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   %ABSENCE TRUE LOVERS KNOWLEDGE GOOD DEVILS GRACE 040503
%RESPONSIBLE CYCLES ALIENATIVE DOMINATIOIN AUGMENTS 040503
%COERCION VIOLENCE ALIENATION MANAGE DISARMAMENT IT 040503
%MILITARY INDUSTRIAL MULTINATIONAL COMPLEXITIES GOD 040503
%QUESTION INCOHERENT ASSUMPTION THOUGHT PATTERN SEX 040503
%DICHOTOMOUS INTEGRITIES RECONCILIATION FORGIVENESS 040503

      In  the  absence  of True-Lovers  who  know  how  to
respond  graciously  to Domineering-People the  cycles  of
alienative-domination  are likely to go  around-and-around
in ways which augment coercion and violence.

      In  the  presence  of True-Lovers who  know  how  to
respond  graciously  to Domineering-People the  cycles  of
alienative-domination  often  diminish  each  time  around
because True-Lovers manage to:

      1.  Ask dis-arming questions which gently expose to
      view the incoherent assumptions and thought patterns
      of domineering people.

      2.  Avoid   getting  sucked  into  the   contentious
      patterns  of preoccupations, assumptions,  thoughts,
      etc. of domineering people.

      3.  Maintain  their own personal and communal  kinds
      of  kind integrities;  rather than to sacrifice them
      in futile  efforts to achieve invulnerability as the
      key to security.

      4.  Avoid   falling  into  patterns  of   alienative
      irritations,   punishments,  retaliations,  revenge,
      etc.

      5.  Avoid falling into:  addictions,   codependency,
      collusions,     despair,   power-concentrations-and-
      corruptions,  hopelessness,  fatalism, indifference,
      self-righteousness, arrogance, domination, violence,
      coercion, victimization, etc.

      6.  See   through   the   pretentious   efforts   of
      domineering people to  represent  their manipulative
      efforts as being designed to facilitate and promote:
      the-common-good,God's-Will, Traditional-Values,
      Integrity-through-War, etc.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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