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 %IGNORE EXCLUDE DENIGRATE ATTACK NEGLECT RELATIONS 040423
%HEALTHY INTEGRATIVE NEEDS DESIRES WISHES NEEDS GOD 040423
%IDOLATRY HOPES ASPIRATIONS DOMINATION SYSTEM DEVIL 040423
%HIGHER POWER PRIORITY IDEAL VALUE PRINCIPLE AUTHOR 040423
 %SCRIPTURE HOLY SACRED COMMANDMENTS PRESCIRIPTIONS 040423
 %ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATION REVENGE ANGER GREEDY 040423

      Relationships between among people cannot be healthy
and integrative relationships ---  if the needs,  desires,
wishes,   hopes,   and aspirations of some  of  the people
are  systematically  ignored,   denigrated,   trumped   by
dominant  other people who claim that they speak for  some
higher power,  priority, ideal, value, principle, etc. ---
which   is   indifferent   to   those   people   who   are
systematically    ignored,    denigrated,    trumped   and
dominated.

      The  tragic  fruits  of  evil-relationships  charac-
terized by  alienation,   distrust,    suspicion,  broken-
communications,   resentment, estrangement, etc. ---  pass
judgment upon  the  claims and practices  of   domineering
people   who  engender   evil-relationships.   The  tragic
and bitter fruits of evil-relationships  are authoritative
grounds   for   withholding  support,   respect,    honor,
tolerance    and    reverence   ---    no    matter    how
concentrated  and  corrupted  may  be  the  power  of  the
domineering leaders who occasion the evil-relationships.

      Domineering/authoritative   people  occasion   evil-
relationships    to-the-extent-that  they   ignore/exclude
gracious and kind considerations of:

1.  People who are poor, powerless, vulnerable, etc.
2.  Complementary  people,  ideals,  values,  goals,  etc.
3.  The consequences of their own thoughts and actions.
4.  The consequences of other's tragic patterns of action.
5.  The  importance  of personal and  communal  integrity.
6.  Multiple forms of integrations and integrities.
7.  Integrities which are not based upon conformity.
8.  How integrities depend upon the works of True-Lovers.
9.  The disintegrative consequences of collusions.
10. The disintegrative consequences of addictions.

      Beware  of  exclusive people and organizations  that
behave   in ways suggested above.    Beware of people  who
are  focusing only upon  what   they  ostensibly affirm in
verbal   statements;  while  ignoring  what  they   affirm
in    their  behavioral-statements  which  include   their
behaviors  of  exclusion  and neglect;    if not  outright
attack,   denigration,   and/or destruction.      Seek  to
discern  their   real   goals,  motivations,   intentions,
desires,  etc.  ---  by how they behave and what/whom they
exclude in various arrogant and self-righteous ways.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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