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   %HEALTHY NATURAL GROWTH CHANGE EVOLUTION PERSONS 040401
%RELATIONSHIPS BEING WHOLE WELL INTEGRATED COHERENT 040401
%DYING PRESERVE PREVENT PARTICIPANTS CREATIVITY SEX 040401
%INTIMACY OPENNESS HONESTY LIBERATION HEALING GOODS 040401
  %STAGNATION RIGIDITY OWN CONTROL DOMINATE SYSTEMS 040401
 %RECOGNIZE NAME DESCRIBE EVIL RELATIONSHIPS FROZEN 040401

      Healthy people are growing/changing within
      growing/changing relationships.

      People who are NOT growing/changing within
      growing/changing relationships are NOT healthy.

      Growth and change are parts of being healthy.

      Stagnation and rigidity are parts of dying.

      We  cannot  preserve a good/healthy relationship  by
preventing   change/growth within the relationship  and/or
by preventing change/growth within the participants within
the relationship.

      Neither   people  nor  relationships   between/among
people can be owned/controlled by any person or group. Any
person  or group which presumes to own/control any  person
or  relationships  is  dysfunctional,   unhealthy   and/or
alienative  ---   thereby   contributing the  evolution of
evil-relationships.

      The  evolution  of evil-relationships is a  form  of
change; but it is not helpful to call it a form of growth,
because it is a form of decay/disintegration.  Attempts to
own/control/prevent-change   in  people/relationships  ---
lead to tragic change,  decay and/or disintegration.  Such
attempts  fail  in  tragic  ways.   Such tragic   failures
cannot   be prevented through the use of  more  resources,
more-power or more techniques/technologies.   We can avoid
creating    such   tragic    failures   by   cooperatively
recognizing,    naming,  describing   and dealing honestly
with  the  realities  of  real healthy living  pointed  to
above.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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