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 %LUST FAILURES CONFORMAL THOUGHTS BEHAVIORS SINNER 040125
   %TOOLS MEANS COERCE MANIPULATE TRUE-LOVERS DEVIL 040125
 %SECRET DESIRES INTENTIONS HOPES EXPECTATION GOODS 040125
  %UNILATERAL DOMINATION SYSTEMS ANALYSIS COOPERATE 040125
 %SEXUAL ABUSE RAPE VISION DREAM FANTASY VULNERABLE 040125
  %CREATIVE PEACEMAKERS SHALOM INTIMACY MEDITATIONS 040125

      When LUST is defined in terms of failures to conform 
to some people's ideal-forms of thoughts and behaviors --- 
domineering people are given perverse  tools with which to 
coerce/manipulate True-Lovers and vulnerable people.    It 
is more helpful to think  about LUST in terms of  thoughts 
and behaviors  which  pertain  to  some  peoples'   secret 
desires, intentions, hopes and expectations of engaging in 
UNILATERAL/DOMINEERING sexual activities/seductions.  LUST 
is  NOT  about  behaviors  which  are:   honest,    civil, 
hospitable,   gracious,   generous,   kind,   sympathetic, 
empathetic,     reverent,   cooperative,    collaborative, 
patient,  etc.    Creative  non-conformists  may  be  free  
of  LUST.  Domineering  people are fairly  likely  to have  
thoughts,   desires,    visions,   dreams,     hopes   and 
aspirations  which  entail  LUST;    focused  upon  people  
whom  they  regard  as "sexually-attractive or  desirable; 
AND vulnerable. 

     Lust  is  not a reality that domineering  people  are 
qualified to deal  with  in any helpful  way  --- for  the 
reasons suggested by the above considerations. 
  
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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