This is http://www.essayz.com/b0401232.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ENTER MAINTAIN CREATE CONTROL FACILITATE MEANING 040123 %INTIMATE FRIENDSHIPS OPENNESS HONESTY ULTIMATE SIN 040123 %ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATION ARROGANCE 040123 %FALLEN POWERS BEING COLLUSIVE GAMES SELF DECEPTION 040123 %VICTIM SUPPORTERS RIGHTEOUS DEVIL RELATIONSHIPS IT 040123 %ABSOLUTE FUNDAMENTAL RELIGIOUS WEALTH POSESSIONS 040123 Many people are unable to ENTER into meaningful human relationships which involve: intimate-friendships, openness, honesty, mutuality; and the possibilities and vulnerabilities of humane sexuality. True ENTRIES into such meaningful human relationships are impossible for: 1. Loyal supporters of "The Fallen Powers That Be". 2. Participants in collusive games of mutual self deception. 3. Victim/supporters of "The Domination System". 4. Self-righteous/arrogant religious people. 5. People preoccupied with wealth/possessions. 6. People preoccupied with domination/controls. 7. People preoccupied with control of authority. 8. Managers of entry into heaven and God's presence. 9. Arrangers of entry into hell and purgatory. 10. Theological technocrats & doctrine salespersons. The above kinds of people cannot truly ENTER into meaningful human relationships because their ultimate concerns demand that they be free to: 1. Use dishonesty in manipulative ways. 2. Conceal their own errors, doubts and limitations. 3. Conceal how they are vulnerable and afraid. 4. Be dominant and in control of vulnerable people. 5. Be superior to other inferior people & children. 6. Accumulate wealth and goods without limitations. 7. Write & interpret rules that limit other people. 8. Pretend that they are subject to no limitations. 9. Avoid showing reverence toward any reality. 10. Neglect the essential foundations of integrity. Idolaters who serve the above kinds of idols regularly sacrifice many kinds of personal and communal integrities in the service of their petty gods. They undermine all foundations of integrity because their gods cannot survive in the presence of honesty, humility, grace, hospitality, civility, reverence, and demonstrations of diverse forms of integrity. Such demonstrations cannot be tolerated and must not be tolerated in order to keep their gods in power upon their thrones. Praise be to the enthroned gods that live in the greedy hearts of such idolaters until they disintegrate because of their disintegrative life-styles. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================