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   %COMMON HUMAN TENDENCY SECURITY UNILATERAL MEANS 040120
%TECHNOCRATS JUSTIFY WEAPONS MASS DESTRUCTION DEVIL 040120
%THOUGHTLESS BEHAVIORS EXCLUSIVE DOMINATION CONTROL 040120
%REJECTION ACCEPTANCE INCLUSION EXCOMMUNICATION GOD 040120
%TRAGIC CONSEQUENCE ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT GOOD IT 040120
%TRUE LOVERS SAFE INVULNERABILITY INCOHERENCE FALSE 040120
      
       There  is a common human tendency to seek  security 
through    unilateral  means  and/or  behaviors.      That 
tendency  leads  to thoughts  and  efforts   which   focus  
EXCLUSIVELY upon: 

DEMONSTRATIONS of: domination, controls, laws, judgements, 
punishments,   coalitions,  invulnerability,   dishonesty, 
secrecy,  etc.   (See  this list below  within a different 
context.) 
     
     The  tragic (in the  sense of Greek   tragic  dramas) 
consequences of the above pattern of thoughts and  efforts  
include:    alienation,   estrangement, misunderstandings, 
ignorance,      dishonesty,      prejudice,       secrecy, 
contentiousness,      un-resolved-conflicts,  incoherence,  
constant-defensiveness,  and  insecure vulnerabilities --- 
but not true-security/Love.   It has been said that God is 
Love;    i.e.,    God  is  present  within  the   gracious 
RELATIONSHIPS of True-Lovers.  (Evil is present within the 
contentious RELATIONSHIPS of domineering people.) 

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     Humane  people  seek to share with  each  other  free 
gifts  of  the freedom to be safely-vulnerable within  the 
contexts  of  creative/created  sanctuaries  wherein  they 
cooperate  within  intimate  relationships  which   RARELY 

DEMONSTRATE:  domination,   controls,  laws,   judgements,  
punishments,   coalitions,  invulnerability,   dishonesty, 
secrecy,  etc.   (See  this list above  within a different 
context.) 

     - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 

     The  wonderful  good fruits of such gracious  efforts 
include forgiveness, reconciliation, mutual-understanding, 
knowledge,   true-honesty,   sound-judgements,   openness, 
cooperation,  true-conflict-resolution,  many-integrities, 
frequent-hospitalities,    true-sanctuary-communities  --- 
and  true-security/Love.    It has been said that  God  is 
present in/with True-Lovers.  

     The  two universes pointed to above are mirror-images 
of  each  other with the nature of the "parities"   within 
them  reversed  as when we look in a mirror.    Physicists 
describe  our  universe by saying  that   looking  at  our 
universe in a mirror "reverses the parity" of the universe 
as seen.  
     
     At  one  point  in the history of  the  evolution  of 
theoretical   physics   ---   virtually  all   respectable 
physicists  assumed/agreed  that all elementary  processes 
would  look the same as seen in a mirror,  as they look as 
seen  without looking in a mirror.   Such physicists  were 
all wrong ---  as proven  by looking very carefully at the 
decay of some elementary particles "in a mirror".  
     
     We  need   to look  very  carefully  and honestly  at 
our elementary-human-relationships ---   in   each other's 
mirrors  ---   to  better  understand  our  disintegrative 
conflicts  and  efforts  to  dominate  other   domineering 
people.  Our attempts to dominate other domineering people 
lead  to personal  and communal patterns of disintegration 
of   our   most   elementary/fundamental   (yet   diverse) 
integrities.    Not  all  integrities  are  alike.    True 
integrity is NOT founded upon  conformity  in the presence 
of domination.    Integrity  is  created  within  gracious 
sanctuaries  wherein gracious people freely exchange gifts 
of  the freedom to be safely-   vulnerable;   rather  than 
defensively-invulnerable.    That  is  a  true-description 
which makes no  sense  to domineering people  who view our 
universe  through  their mirror-of-domination-and-controls 
which reverses all parities of all personal relationships. 
  
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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