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   %ONE MOST DOMINANT PERSON GROUP FAMILY GANG CITY 040106
 %STATE NATION CASTE CLASS PROFESSION COLOR SEX GOD 040106
 %SEXUAL ORIENTATION CULTURE GENDER RATIONALITY SIN 040106
 %VALUE IDEAL PRINCIPLE REASON BUSINESS SPIRTUALITY 040106
 %TOGETHER COOPERATE COLABORATE COMPETE ELIMINATION 040106
   %REJECTION EXCOMMUNICATION ACCEPT RECONCILIATION 040106

    Domineering  people  are not  dedicated  to  promoting 
personal  and communal integrations and integrities;   but 
rather to  the domination-of-the-many by-the-few-superior-
ones, or even by the superior "Best-One". 
     
    The  "One" may literally be one, or symbolically-one. 

                                                          
    The "One"  may be one-person,  one-family,   one-gang, 
one-group,  one-city,  one-state,  one-nation,  one-caste, 
one-class,  one-profession,  one-color, one-language, one-
culture, one-nationality, one-sex, one-gender, one-sexual-
orientation, one-rationality,  one-reason, one-value, one-
principle,   one-truth,  one-affection,  one-spirit,  one-
spirituality,  one-business,  etc.    Whatever the one  is 
internally,   IT  is perceived to  be  superior  to  "the-
others"; in alienation of course. 

     Since   many  domineering  people   cannot    easily-
dominate-together  in ways which are  cooperative;    they 
often try to dominate each other and eliminate each  other 
until   only  the  Most-Dominant-One  is  the  only  self-
alienated One that remains.   This is true of many people, 
and of many aspects  of any one person.    In the  case of 
one person the dominant "One"   aspect of a person may be: 
sexuality,  reason,  spirituality,  greed,  perfectionism, 
judgmentalism, indifference, narcissism, etc. 
     
     In  the  case of many persons the  Most-Dominant-Ones 
are likely to encourage other ones to accentuate that  ONE 
aspect of themselves which can most readily be accentuated 
and  dominated  by the Most-Dominant-Ones;   FOR  EXAMPLE, 
ONLY:    sexuality,   reason,   greed,   perfectionism  OR 
judgmentalism.   Thus,  personal integrity is not only NOT 
PROMOTED;   PERSONAL INTEGRITY is intentionally undermined 
in order to facilitate domination OF the "Most  Vulnerable 
Ones"   BY  the "Most Dominant Ones".   Of course immature 
true-lovers  are the "Most Vulnerable Ones"  because  they 
are  caught by the "Most-Dominant-Ones"  in the process of 
privately exchanging free  gifts  of  the  freedom  to  be 
safely   vulnerable   with  each  other  within   communal 
sanctuaries.  The consequent dominant judgements are sure, 
swift and not troubled by intimate  understandings of  the 
nature  of  the  most   meaningful  personal relationships 
discovered.   Discernment of the meanings of those healthy 
relationships  would  undermine  the  collusive  games  of 
mutual  self deception being played faithfully by the most 
competitive "Most Dominant Ones".      
  
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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