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%FOCUS EVIL RELATIONSHIP BELIEF ASSUMPTION ATTITUDE 031203
%MYTHS MOTIVES MOTIVATIONS IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES 031203
%SYSTEMS ANALYSIS DOMINATION COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL 031203
%SELF DECEPTIONS DISHONESTY ADDICTIONS CODEPENDENTS 031203
%REFLEXIVE SUBJECTIVE OBJECTIVE EXPECTATIONS FALLEN 031203
 %CONCENTRATE POWERS THAT BE CORRUPTED HEAVEN HELLS 031203

     Whenever  we encounter EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS we need  to
seek to discern what have been the operative:

       beliefs, assumptions, attitudes, myths, motives,
       motivations, ideals, values, principles, etc.

         that  misled  people  to think,   desire,   hope,
         expect,   demand,  command,  and do things  which
         engendered:

           anger, rage, resentment, rebellion, alienation,
           estrangement,  excommunnications,   withdrawal,
           repressions,  suppressions,  depressions,  dis-
           ease, tension, contentiousness, conflicts, etc.

             that are the common/typical symptoms of
             tragic EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS.

     All  too often we look for human scape-goats to label
and upon whom to  place/projet  blame.    We  fail to seek
sympathetic  understandings  of   how  and why  the  EVIL-
RELATIONSHIPS  evolved as people  have been mis-guided  by
mis-leading:

       beliefs, assumptions, attitudes, myths, motives,
       motivations, ideals, values, principles, etc.

     Peacemakers  seek  to find ways to promote  mutuality
in:   understanding,  cooperation,  dialogue,   listening,
respect,   consideration,   forgiveness,   tolerance   and
healing.   We need to help each other find such ways.   We
need  to  work  together to  mitigate  EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS,
rather  than to attempt to label, dominate,   control,  or
eliminate EVIL-PEOPLE, EVIL-GROUPS AND EVIL-NATIONS.   The
latter   kinds   of   attempts   usually   augment   EVIL-
RELATIONSHIPS  --- and   rarely  mitigate,   control,   or
eliminate  EVIL-RELATIONSHIPS.    The tragic attempts  are
usually futile-attempts  when  perceived  by mature people
who are mature, authentic, honest, healthy, well-informed,
intelligent,   responsive  and  well integrated with other
such people.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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