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   %HEALTHY DIVERSE INTIMATE PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS 031201
   %BUILD BALANCED MUTUAL DESIRES OPEN HONEST TRULY 031201
%LOVERS COOPERATION INTEGRATIVE UNILATERAL INTIMATE 031201
 %COERCION VIOLENCE ENABLED PROMOTE FACILITATE HATE 031201
 %FEARS ANGER INEQUALITY SEPARATION ALIENATION LAWS 031201
  %EXCOMMUNICATIONS PUNISHMENTS COMMANDMENTS TABOOS 031201

     Within our healthy and diverse most intimate and

      personal relationships we are enabled to build upon

       the discernment/nurturing of our balanced/mutual

        desires --- to be open and honest with each other

         within truly cooperative-integrative efforts.

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     We cannot UNILATERALY create healthy-intimate

      personal-relationships through controls, domination,

       or manipuations --- because such efforts subvert

        and/or regress the possibilities of: mutuality,

         balance, cooperation, integration, trust,

          openness, honesty, authenticity, learning,

           growing, creativity, flexibility, etc.

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     We cannot UNILATERALLY create healthy-intimate

      relationships,  because the presuppositions/beliefs

       which are central to unilateral thoughts, desires,

        hopes, aspirations, decisions and actions --- are

         ANTITHETICAL TO: mutuality, balance, cooperation,

          integrtion, trust, openness, honesty, and

           authenticity.

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     We cannot UNILATERALLY create healthy-intimate

      relationships --- which are built upon: fear, anger,

       resentment, inequality, separation, alienation,

        excommunications, punishments, commandments, laws,

         prescriptions, proscriptions, taboos, legalisms,

          judgementalism, perfectionisim, purifications,

           ideal-forms, formalisms, formalities, rituals,

            ideals, idealism, confessions, doctrines,

             or any other creations dominated by us

              as self-righteous/arrogant mortals.

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     It is always a Good-Time to Let-Go of our  Collusive-
Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception,    Concentrated-and-Fallen
Powers-That-Be,  Domination-Systems, Preparations-For-War,
and their supporting cast of idolatrous/unbalanced ideals,
values, principles,  hopes, and aspirations.  Our personal
and  communal health and survival depend upon our Letting-
Go in timely ways.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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