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  %SITUATION CONTEXT ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL 031029
  %TRUE LOVERS DOMINEERING PEOPLE SYSTEM LEADERSHIP 031029
%RECOGNIZE NAME DESCRIBE AFFIRM VIRTUES VALUES GOOD 031029
 %DEVILS IMPORTANT VIRTUES VALUES IDEALS PRINCIPLES 031029
 %PRINCIPLES PEOPLE COMPLEMENTARY CONFLICTS ATTACKS 031029
   %COOPERATION BALANCE MUTUALITY CIVILITY HUMILITY 031029

    Within each situation and context

    it is essential that non-domineering people

    show leadership in helping all who are present

    to recognize, name, describe and affirm

    the importance of those virtues, values, ideals,
    principles,  and people

    who are then-and-there most essential

    in the sense of being  complementary to other virtues,
    values,  ideals,  principles  and people

    that have been playing dominant roles within the
    development of the present situation and context.

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    The essential foundations for personal and communal
    integrities depend upon situations and contexts.

                        - - - - - - - - -

    The people who are best qualified
    to recognize, name, describe and affirm

    the esssential foundations for personal and communal
    integrities --- are those who have recently been
    playing the least dominant roles in recent events.

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    When  some people have been playing  domineering roles
    ---  it is essential that less domineering people work
    together   to  affirm  the  complementary  virtues of:
    cooperation,  balance, mutuality, civility,  humility,
    hospitality,  generosity,  listening,  patience,   and
    reverence.
                        - - - - - - - - -

    When most people have been playing only:   supportive,
    submissive,  conformal,  loyalty, obedience,  passive,
    thoughtless,    codependent,   technocratic,    and/or
    related "patriotic"  roles ---   it is essential  that
    people  who  are   committed   to   facilitating   and
    promotiong  both  personal  and  communal   forms   of
    integrity ---  assert the importance   of:    honesty,
    accurate    descriptions,  critical  systems-analysis,
    liberation,     creativity,   authenticity,    debate,
    dialogue, and graceful meekness.

                        - - - - - - - - -

    When   the   course   of  recent  events  have    been
    dominated    by   people   who    are:       insecure,
    ignorant,  prejudiced, confused, provincial, immature,
    fearful, defensive  and isolated --- it  is  essential
    that   people  who enjoy security as the  freedom   to
    be  safely  vulnerable  in intimate  relationships ---
    affirm   the  importance  of: education,  scholarship,
    study,    learning,  travel, reading, language/culture
    studies, etc.

    In    each    context   and   situation   there    are
    complementary  people,  ideals,  values,  virtues  and
    considerations of  whatever most merits  reverence  in
    that  context and situation --- as being  essential to
    the process of  making  peace through  open and honest
    conflict  resolution to help all people avoid the dis-
    integrative   consequences   of  endless   domination,
    coercion, violence, and wars.

                        - - - - - - - - -

    There are many tragic consequences of honoring any one
    or few ideals, values, principles, people, etc. --- as
    always   meriting our reverence,    honor,    respect,
    and/or unqualified   support  in all  situations   and
    contexts  regardless   of  the consequences   thereof.
    Idolatry leads to tragic disintegrations.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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