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%TRUE LOVER DOMINATION SYSTEM SERIOUSLY OPEN HONEST 031008
%NARCISSISTIC EGOCENTRIC PARANOID CONSPIRACY THEORY 031008
  %HAPPEN AROUND SELF OTHERS DIFFERENT PEOPLE PROVE 031008
 %EXPERIENCES UNDERSTANDING RELATIONSHIPS MOTIVATED 031008
 %CIVIL HOSPITABLE GENEROUS BALANCED HEAL RECONCILE 031008
 %ALIENATE CONTEND CONFLICT MISUNDERSTAND PREJUDICE 031008

     How  are  we to distinguish between  True-Lovers  who
take   "THE   DOMINATION  SYSTEM"   seriously   ---    and
narcissistic  and/or  somewhat  paranoid  people who  take
seriously   many  unproven  CONSPIRACY THEORIES about what
is happening around them?

     1.  True-Lovers  are open and honest with each other,
and with other different people,  about  their  respective
personal   experiences  and  their ways  of  understanding
their  personal  experiences   and    relationships    ---
while  narcissistic   and/or  somewhat  paranoid   people,
often   are not  open or honest with  each   other,     or
with  other "different"   people,  about their  respective
personal experiences, relationships and understandings.

     2.  True-Lovers  are motivated by Love in  ways which
are civil,  hospitable,  generous,  balanced,  healing and
reconciling ---  while narcissist and/or somewhat paranoid
people,  are motivated by:  self-centered  considerations,
pathological-fears, extremism, and by considerations which
are not  well-balanced or well grounded  in open or honest
dialogue  with  diverse other people ---  and  so  tend to
facilitate and promote both personal and communal patterns
of:   alienation,   contentiousness,   conflicts, disinte-
gration, misunderstanding, prejudice and confusion.

     The differences  are  often  not clear  cut  and  not
objective;   yet  healthy  and  well-balanced  people  can
discern  such   differences  with  reasonable  levels   of
balanced confidence ---  and act wisely-prudently in terms
of their discernment of such differences.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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