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%INSECURE DOMINEERING ENOUGH CONTENTIOUSNESS LOVERS 031004
%DEVILS CONFLICTS VALUES HONORS BELIEFS ABSOLUTE IT 031004
%CRITICIZE COMPLEMENTARY SELF OTHER COLLUSIONS GODS 031004
   %DUTY FAITHLESS TRAITORS FRIENDS ENEMIES TRUSTED 031004
  %INSECURE SECURITY VULNERABILITY RIGHT WRONG GOOD 031004
%OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE COMMUNICATION INTERITY COHERE 031004

     For  insecure and domineering people it is not enough
for them  (and  their friends) to affirm  what  they truly
believe, value and honor.  To be complete, they (and their
friends)    MUST   also  criticize   complementary   other
affirmations, truths, beliefs, values  and  honored people
---  who appear to be in conflict with them.    The latter
duties  are  viewed as essential to the completion of  the
former duties.  Those faithless people who are not willing
to  complete the latter duties cannot  be:   true-friends,
trusted, or honored.

     For  insecure  and domineering people all issues  are
dichotomous,   either/or and/or yes/no issues which divide
people into contentious right/wrong armies.

     For  insecure and domineering people it is wrong  for
anyone to  engage  in  extended dialogues with "different"
people  who  have  not  made  up  their  minds  about  the
important issues  pertaining to eternal  life  and  death.
Such indecision,  non-alignment,  lack of conviction/faith
and failure to be contentious/domineering --- is a sign of
the influence of the Devil or His Equivalent.

     True-Lovers  and healthy people are not insecure  and
domineering  people.   They recognize the great importance
of    becoming    well   informed  about  how    different
peoples' heritages and experiences  have  led them to have
their   own   unique   and  often  creative  perspectives,
visions  and vocations.    They cannot become and be  well
informed in the absence  of  open and honest dialogue with
"different"   people.    Thus maintaining  open and honest
channels of communication  is an  important  aspect of the
vocations  of  True-Lovers  and of  healthy   people   who
refuse  to  be  dominated  and  made insecure  by addicts,
controllers   and    their   codependent   supporters   in
dichotomous leadership efforts.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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