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%MEANING PAST PRESENT FUTURE INTIMACIES OBVIOUS GOD+030912
%UNILATERAL ACHIEVEMENT DIFFERENCE PERCEIVED NATURE+030912
%SECURITY INVULNERABILITY SAFETY LOVE DEVIL CONTROL+030912
%UNIQUE CREATIVE HIDE TRUE PARADOXES SANCTUARY FALL+030912
%PROPHET OPEN HONESTY INTEGRITY RELATIONSHIP SEXUAL+030912
%DISEASE PLEASURE BONDING CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACE 030912
                                                          
   Domineering  people  and  true lovers are  unlikely  to
discern  the same "meaning"  in past,  present and  future
"intimacies".    That which is "obvious" by appropriate to
some  people,  is obviously "inappropriate"  to the  other
people.     The difference in meaning is often related  to
the perceived natures  off:  "security",  "vulnerability",
"safety", "invulnerability", "love",  "evil", "sanctuary",
"salvation",     etc.     ---    and  how  they  may    be
"achieved" and/or "enjoyed".                              
                                                          
     To   unilaterally  "achieve"   what  they  want   ---
domineering people   often  impose   upon   healthy people
unilateral rules of mandatory secrecy:                    
                                                          
     1.  Unique people  whom God has created --- must hide
what is unique about themselves.                          
                                                          
     2.  People who are "different" ---  must hide what is
"different" about themselves.                             
                                                          
     3.  People  who  are  creative ---   must  hide their
creativity.                                               
                                                          
     4.  People  whom  God has called to be  prophets  ---
must keep quiet.                                          
                                                          
     5.  People who are  involved in wonderful integrative
relationships  ---   must be quiet about  their  wonderful
integrative relationships.                                
                                                          
     Domineering people  do  not  want  to be embarrassed,
frightened,   or  made uncomfortable by God's Whole  Truth
which includes paradoxical complementary truths. They want
to  fragment  God's Whole Truth;  then control  and  abuse
their  fragments  of the Whole Truth as sharp  tools  with
which to manipulate vulnerable people;  e.g.,  the:  poor,
thirsty,   hungry, homeless,  power less,  naked,  hungry,
sick,  etc.   Thus idolatry often entails the rejection of
God's Paradoxical Truths.                                 
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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