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  %HUMANE MANAGEMENT RELATIONSHIPS COOPERATIVE LOVE+030902
%UNILATERAL GRACIOUS COERCIVE INCREMENTAL CHAOS SIN+030902
%INVITATION DEMAND SUGGEST DOMINATE OPEN HONEST GOD+030902
  %PARTICIPANTS COMPLEMENTARY HOSPITABLE TECHNOCRAT+030902
%AUTHENTIC AUTHORITARIAN DOMINEERING LIBERATION SEX+030902
%GETTING YES NO REVENGE SATISFACTION WINNERS LOSERS 030902
                                                          
     The HUMANE MANAGEMENT of HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS involves
diverse processes which are:                              
                                                          
 1.  Cooperative, not unilateral.                         
                                                          
 2.  Gracious, not coercive.                              
                                                          
 3.  Incremental, not catastrophic.                       
                                                          
 4.  Based upon invitations, not upon demands.            
                                                          
 5.  Founded upon suggestions, not domination.            
                                                          
 6.  Open and honest, not secretive or misleading.        
                                                          
 7.  Sensitive to all participants, not just a few.       
                                                          
 8.  Hospitable, not technocratic.                        
                                                          
 9.  Guided by authentic people, not authoritarians.      
                                                          
10.  Guided by many complementary ideals, not by one.     
                                                          
11.  Guided by well informed people, not by prejudice.    
                                                          
12.  Guided by true lovers, not by fearful addicts.       
                                                          
13.  Guided by merciful people, not by a vengeful few.    
                                                          
14.  Guided by humble people, not by judgmental ones.     
                                                          
15.  Characterized by kindness, not coercion/violence.    
                                                          
16.  Characterized by balance, not by extremism.          
                                                          
17.  Characterized by shalom, not by terrorism/terrorists.
                                                          
18.  Characterized by sharing power, not concentrating it.
                                                          
19.  Characterized by sharing Love, not concentrating Its.
                                                          
20.  Characterized by reflexive relations, not objectives.
                                                          
21.  Characterized by creativity, not by conformity.      
                                                          
22.  Reflexive in nature, rather than objective in nature.
                                                          
23.  Led by I Thou relationships, not I It relationships. 
                                                          
24.  More descriptive, than prescriptive or proscriptive. 
                                                          
25.  Facilitating reconciliations, not excommunications.  
                                                          
26.  Facilitating honesty in sanctuaries, not conformity. 
                                                          
27.  Facilitating liberation and liberty, not limitations.
                                                          
28.  Facilitating healing and growth, not disease & dying.
                                                          
29.  Facilitating collusion transcendence, not collusions.
                                                          
30.  Preparing for enduring peace, not for a final war.   
                                                          
31.  Facilitating global integrations, not global chaos.  
                                                          
32.  Honoring true lovers, not destructive warriors.      
                                                          
33.  Building inclusive communities, not exclusive ones.  
                                                          
34.  Building inclusive sanctuary communities, not forts. 
                                                          
35.  Constructive, not destructive.                       
                                                          
36.  Communally healthy, not about just wealthy healthy.  
                                                          
37.  Focused on many complementary ideals, not just a few.
                                                          
38.  International in nature, not nationalistic in nature.
                                                          
39.  Facilitating both personal and communal integrities. 
                                                          
40.  Facilitating conflict resolutions, not winning wars. 
                                                          
41.  ALL GETTING TO YES, not ALL GETTING REVENGE.         
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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