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%FUTILE PREPARE READY SATISFY ALL POTENTIAL CRITICS 030823
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     It is futile for us to try to prepare to be ready  to
satisfy all potential future critics of us ---  because as
a whole they will be an incoherent/non-integrated group of
people  ---  even if we are ourselves well integrated  and
healthy people.    What we may say or do to satisfy one of
them --- will often be offensive to them.

     If  we  do  try to prepare to satisfy  all  potential
future critics --- we ourselves will become incoherent and
disintegrated;     in  order  to  match  their  incoherent
characteristics ---- at the sacrifice of our  own forms of
integrities.

     If we are fear-full and insecure ---  we may seek  to
achieve  security by being ready at any moment to  satisfy
(or  to dominate/control)  any critic who  comes  forward.
We will be torn between submission, fight and flight.   We
will  be  torn between satisfying one form of  extremists;
and satisfying their opposite forms of  extremists.     We
will  be  indecisive and unable to stand with any kind  of
integrity which is whole, healthy, helpful, or enduring.

     We  cannot support and facilitate either personal  or
communal integrities --- by taking our cues from potential
critics who  lack both personal and communal integrity ---
because they  are taking their cues from what  they  think
each other will expect and/or demand.   In their states of
mutual alienation from each other ---  they  are  not well
informed  about  each other in any meaningful way.    Only
ill-informed   fools  will  follow  the  leads   of   such
incoherent people!  Will we do so?

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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