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              %ENJOY SELF ESTEEM ACHIEVE ACCEPTANCE 030729
                     %PRESTIGE OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE 030729

     What  are some of the many ways in which people  come
to enjoy self-esteem?

     1.  Through  the  general unqualified  acceptance  of
them by the members of their family/communities  ---  into
open-and-honest-dialogue and cooperative-work.

     2.  By  the  unilateral personal  achievements  which
they  (and/or others)  have regarded as meriting  respect,
honor and/or support.

     3.  By  cooperative work with others in efforts which
fulfill personal and communal needs ---  in ways which are
appreciated by many diverse members of the communities.

     4.  By   skillfully  playing  (in   tenacious   ways)
collusive  games of mutual self-deception  about  personal
worth and merit.

     5.  Through unilateral arrogance,  self-righteousness
and pretentious-airs.

     6.  By  servile-service to dictators who puff up  the
self-esteem  of  their most loyal-servants in  maintaining
the dictatorship.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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