This is http://www.essayz.com/b0305091.htm         
Previous-Essay      <== This-Essay ==>     Following-Essay
Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words.
{Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.}
==========================================================
   %RELATIONSHIPS DOMINEERING SUPPORTERS DOMINATION 030509
 %EVIL ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL COMMUNAL LOVE 030509
  %MUTUAL SATISFACTION PLEASURE COOPERATION DIVERSE 030509
%INTEGRITY REVERENCE COOPERATION DIFFERENCE VISIONS 030509
%BALANCE COMPLEMENTARY IDEAL VALUE PRINCIPLE VIRTUE 030509
 %GRACIOUS BULLIES COERCIVE VIOLENCE BALANCE HEALTH 030509

      The  RELATIONSHIPS among domineering people who  are
faithful  to  "The  Domination  System"    ---   are  evil
RELATIONSHIPS  ---  because  their  RELATIONSHIPS are  NOT
founded   upon   ANY   of  the     following     essential
foundations   for   mutually satisfactory and  pleasurable
cooperation:

     1.  Showing reverence toward various people's diverse
forms of integrity;   cooperating as different children of
creativity, imagination, visions, and integration.

     2.    Sharing   demonstrations  through   words   and
deeds  ---   of  the  importance     of    many   balanced
considerations     of  complementary:    ideas,    ideals,
values,  principles,  and virtues.

     3.  Working  cooperatively  to  create  and  maintain
gracious  sanctuary  communities  within  which  different
people are all safe,  and feel truly safe/relaxed;   while
being open and honest with each other about their own most
important:    experiences,  insights, beliefs, convictions
and desires.

     4.  Being  publicly  committed to dealing  openly and
honestly  with  the reflexive-complexity  of  integrative-
relationships between and among diverse-peoples.

     5.  Working  together  to understand,  transcend  and
subvert the destructive consequences of bullies' behaviors
which are dishonest, coercive and/or violent.

     6.  Exposing  (as  graciously  as  possible) bullies'
arrogant,    self-righteous  and  pretentious   forms   of
communication and behaviors.

     7.  Demonstrating   graciously  through   affirmative
words  and deeds why:  humility,  civility,   hospitality,
generosity,   reverence,   gentleness,  kindness,   mercy,
forgiveness,     reconciliation,    cooperation  and  col-
laboration   ---   are     essential    foundations    for
civilization and personal/communal shalom.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
==========================================================