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%MACHO GUYS EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE PERSISTENT BELIEVE 030505
%INVULNERABILITY SECURITY EXPENSE OTHER EVIL PEOPLE 030505
%RECOGNIZE THREATEN UNILATERAL CHOICE GET NEED WANT 030505
%MUTUAL RESPECT HONOR SUPPORT VULNERABILITY FREEDOM 030505

     Macho guys who are emotionally immature  persistently
believe and maintain that:

     1.  Their  security  depends upon  they  being always
invulnerable  ---   at the expense of others being  always
being made to be more vulnerable.

     2.  Their  seeking  out,  recognizing,   identifying,
labeling  and  destroying  the  "evil-people"   whom  they
"recognize"   as "threatening"  the security of the  macho
guys and those whom they unilaterally chose to "help".

     3.  Their  getting what they "need"  and "want"   ---
even if  that means that others do not get that they  need
and want.

     4.  Mutual respect, honor,  support and vulnerability
--- are NOT steps on the road to true security --- because
they do NOT believe it is known  and  experienced  as  the
freedom  to  be  safely vulnerable ---  in open,   honest,
and   intimate   relationships   with   people   who   are
"different"  and complementary beings of integrity ---  in
Love, as imperfect lovers.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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