This is http://www.essayz.com/b0304241.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DOMINATION SYSTEM UNILATERAL CONTROL DOMINEERING+030424 %APPEARANCES PRETENSE IMPOSSIBLE SUCCESS HONESTY+030424 %PERSONAL PRIVATE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS SEXUAL+030424 %FRIENDSHIPS INTIMACIES PLEASURES SATISFACTION+030424 %DEVILS SINNERS LOVERS FAILURES COLLUSIONS FALLEN+030424 %PREOCCUPIED COMPULSIVE CONTROL MANAGE CONFORMITY 030424 There are many aspects of our lives which cannot be unilaterally controlled. When domineering people try to control such aspects of our lives (for whatever reasons) they fail to succeed; even when they make it appear like they have succeeded. Personal and communal integrities are being undermined and/or subverted whenever people and communities are preoccupied with domineering peoples' efforts to control each other's: FEARS ANXIETIES EXPECTATIONS HOPES IGNORANCE PREJUDICES UNDERSTANDINGS PERCEPTIONS DISCERNMENTS DESCRIPTIONS RELATIONSHIPS EXPERIENCES FRIENDSHIPS ANIMOSITIES DEPENDENCIES FREEDOMS KNOWLEDGE ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS LEARNING FORGETTING EDUCATION INDOCTRINATIONS CLARIFICATION CONFUSIONS INTEGRATIONS PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS CHAOS TABOOS PUNISHMENTS INCLUSIONS EXCLUSIONS BLINDNESS DEAFNESS COLLUSIONS ADDICTIONS DISEASES DIS-EASE TECHNOCRACIES SPIRITUALITY LIBERATIONS IMPRISONMENTS DESIRES PLEASURES LIMITS LIMITATIONS BOUNDS BOUNDARIES POSSESSIONS HOSPITALITY TOLERANCE INTOLERANCE CIVILITY COOPERATION RECONCILIATION HEALING For the most part the items above point to aspects of our lives which cannot be UNILATERALLY controlled. Often when domineering people cannot succeed in controlling the aspects pointed to above; what they end up doing is trying to make it looks like they have succeeded --- even though it is in the nature of human relationships that the success they strive to achieve is utterly impossible. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================