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  %UNHEALTHY TOLERANCE CIVILIZATION GRACE REVERENCE+030328
 %LET-GO IMPOSSIBLE ABSENCE SICK PREOCCUPATION GODS+030328
%DOMINATION CONTROL SYSTEM ANALYSIS DIFFERENT DEVIL+030328
  %EXPLORE CREATIVITY POSSIBILITIES TOGETHER LOVERS+030328
%DESCRIBE OWN EXPERIENCES INSIGHTS DISCERNMENTS SIN+030328
  %INTIMATE VULNERABILITY SAFELY SECURITY SANCTUARY 030328

     Consider the difference between healthy-tolerance and
un-healthy tolerance:

     Healthy  civilization is impossible in the absence of
good doses of healthy-tolerance; i.e.,  occasions in which
healthy-people let-go of sick people's preoccupations with
domination  and/or controls ---  and become able  to  let-
others:

     Be-different in honest integrative ways.

     Be-honest about themselves with others.

     Honestly-enjoy their own integrative-relationships.

     Honestly-explore creative possibilities of balance.

     Honestly-explore creative-possibilities together.

     Honestly-own their own experiences and insights.

     Honestly-describe their own experiences and insights.

     Honestly-relax, meditate & reverence transcendence.

     Transcend and subvert collusive games of mutual self-
     deception and pretense.

     Let-go of our culture's addictive habits.

     Let-go of narcissism, greed and possessiveness.

     Let-go of dysfunctional; taboos, guilt, and fears.

     Work   graciously  on  letting-go  of  the  "role-of-
victim"   ---   played  at the expense of other people ---
who  are taking  good care of themselves and of others.

     The above is true of healthy-tolerance.

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     The following is true of unhealthy-intolerance:

     The   "Domination  System"   cannot  survive  in  the
presence  of   good  doses of  healthy-tolerance;    i.e.,
occasions    in  which     healthy-people     let-go    of
sick  people's  preoccupations  with   domination   and/or
controls  ---   and  let-others be true to themselves  and
each other.  For  this   reason domineering people:

     Conform in dis-honest and dis-integrative ways.

     Are dis-honest about themselves with others.

     Dis-honestly-enjoy dis-integrative-relationships.

     Dis-honestly-subvert creative balance.

     Dis-honestly-subvert cooperation.

     Dis-honestly deny their-own experiences and insights.

     Dis-honestly-prescribe their experiences & insights.

     Dis-honestly-promote contention and conflict.

     Dis-honestly support collusive games of mutual self-
     deception and pretense.

     Cling-to of their culture's addictive habits.

     Cling-to of narcissism, greed and possessiveness.

     Cling-to of dysfunctional taboos and fears.

     Work   contentiously   on clinging-to the   "role-of-
victim" --- played at the expense of other people ---  who
are taking good care of themselves and of others.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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