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 %FEARSOME LETTING GO INTEGRATIVE HEALTHY MOVEMENTS+030322
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 %BELIEF CONVICTION MANIPULATIVE TOOLS MEANS LIMITS+030322
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   %CONFUSE CHILDISH GRUDGE ANGER RAGE ANXIETY MYTH 030322

     We  cannot  be truly integrative or healthy people so
long as we are unwilling to, and/or do not, LET-GO of:

     1.  Alienative defensiveness.
     2.  Attempting to be invulnerable.
     3.  Dominance over vulnerable people.
     4.  Dishonesty as a manipulative tool.
     5.  Beliefs that we are superior people.
     6.  Beliefs that we can transcend all our limits.
     7.  Unlimited powers to be in control.
     8.  Secrecy as a manipulative tool.
     9.  Preoccupations with who is "good" and who "evil".
    10.  Possessions which we try to keep and/or control.
    11.  Dichotomous (either/or) patterns of thinking.
    12.  Attempts to control the uncontrollable.
    13.  Confused childish beliefs/convictions.
    14.  Grudges, anger, rage and anxiety.
    15.  Old myths and cosmologies that lack integrity.
    16.  Convenience of ignorance, confusion & prejudice.
    17.  Excommunication as a manipulative tool.
    18.  Coercion/violence as manipulative tools.
    19.  Pretentious trust in our objectivity/purity.
    20.  Exclusive reliance upon our own paradigm.
    21.  Greed, narcissism and egocentricity.
    22.  Collusions, addictions and codependencies.
    23.  Fears of change, creativity and novelty.
    24.  Suspicion/distrust toward all "different" people.
    25.  Fear of LETTING-GO in the Presence of Love.

     People  who have invested their lives in the  support
of  "The Domination System"   are rarely willing to LET GO
of  any  of  the  means  to  maintain  the appearances-of-
integrity of "The Domination  System"  around  which their
lives  revolve ---  and upon which their meaning  in  life
depends.    They FEEL that without "The Domination System"
they would die literally,  spiritually or psychologically.
Only rarely do such people LET GO!

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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