This is http://www.essayz.com/b0302252.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %KINDS FRUITS FLOW EFFORTS FOCUS SHARE SELF OTHER 030225 %NURTURE GROW AFFIRM TOGETHER LIVES INTER-PERSONAL 030225 %PATTERNS LOVE EVIL INTEGRATION FRAGMENTATION FALL 030225 %RECONCILIATION ALIENATION COOPERATION CONTENTIOUS 030225 %FRIEND ANIMOSITY INTIMACY ENMITY HONEST PRETENDED 030225 %GENEROUS GREED BALANCE EXTREME HONOR DISGRACE GOD 030225 The kinds of fruits which flow from our efforts depend greatly upon what it is that we FOCUS upon and SHARE with others; what it is that we nurture, grow, and affirm together in our lives and inter-personal-relations: LOVE EVIL INTEGRATION FRAGMENTATION RECONCILIATION ALIENATION COOPERATION CONTENTIOUSNESS FRIENDSHIPS ANIMOSITY INTIMACY ENMITY HONESTY PRETENTIONS GENEROSITY GREED BALANCE EXTREMISM HONOR DISGRACE HEALTH DIS-EASE RESPECT FEAR HOSPITALITY ANIMOSITY WELCOMES REJECTIONS CIVILITY INSULTS TRUST SUSPICIONS LOVE HATE COMPASSION INDIFFERENCE EQUANIMITY ANGER APPRECIATION RESENTMENT TOLERANCE DEMANDS MEDICINES VIRUSES/BACTERIA/MOLDS HEALTH-CARE CONFLICT DESIRES CONTROLS HOPES FEARS INVITATIONS THREATS VISIONS INSULTS EXPERIENCES DENIGRATIONS DESCRIPTIONS PUNISHMENTS FORGIVENESS LEGALITIES CONFESSIONS CONDEMNATIONS FOND-MEMORIES ANGER/RAGE HUMILITY ARROGANCE MUTUALITY DOMINATION PLEASURES RESENTMENT THANKSGIVING REVENGE BELIEFS TERRORISM BONDS EXTREMISM GIFTS ATTACKS FRIENDS ENEMIES DISCERNMENT SUSPICIONS RELAXATIONS ANXIETIES COMPLEMENTATIONS COMMANDMENTS COURTING DEMANDS OFFERINGS TAKINGS GIFTING LOOTING REST CONTENTIONS CREATIVITY CONFORMITY SPONTANEITY FORMALITIES LIFE DEATH LOVE HATE Our fruits are often contrary to our intentions. Often we do not understand why we grow --- the bitter fruits which we regularly grow. We do not discern how the patterns in what we grow depends on how we think; and on what we do not think about. Our attitudes and motivations are often far more important than are our technologies and claims. Our self-righteous arrogance and striving for dominance often undermines all of our "good" intentions; and we cannot tell what is "evil" and what is truly good. We simply do NOT know to what the words relate, in truth and lovers who are truly in Love. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================