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  %HEALTHY HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS EVOLVE GROW ENGENDER+030103
   %GRACIOUS PATTERNS REACHING OUT RESPONDING COURT+030103
   %FRIENDSHIP INTIMACY GIVING RECEIVING INITIATING+030103
   %ACCEPT CREATIVE THANK ENVISION PRAISE IMAGE GET+030103
   %SEXUAL HYPOTHESIS AUTHENTIC AFFIRM SUGGEST FAIL+030103
   %DEMONSTRATE IMITATE DESIRE PERMIT OFFER ENJOYED 030103
                                                          
     Healthy   human  relationships  evolve/grow  out   of
gracious patterns  of:                                    
                                                          
     INITIATIVES                 RESPONSES                
                                                          
     initiating                  accepting                
     giving                      receiving                
     reaching-out                responding               
     creating                    thanking                 
     envisioning                 praising                 
     imaging                     appreciating             
     imagining                   encouraging              
     hypothesizing               authenticating           
     courting                    affirming                
     suggesting                  approving                
     demonstrating               imitating                
     desiring                    permitting               
     offering                    enjoying                 
     approaching                 tolerating               
     articulating                connecting               
     proposing                   echoing                  
     describing                  welcoming                
     experimenting               hosting                  
     reporting                   confirming               
                                                          
     Words may be meaningfully connected both             
directly  across  and diagonally across  ---   with  words
suggesting initiatives on the left and  responses  on  the
right.                                                    
                                                          
     In  the  light  of the above  suggested  patterns  of
initiation  and response;  what are the roots of  personal
and  communal:   dis-ease,  disease,   being  ill-at-ease,
alienation, estrangement, distrust, fear, evil, sin, etc? 
                                                          
     dishonesty     pretentiousness   deception           
                                                          
     arrogance      domination        self-righteousness  
                                                          
     covetousness   greed             imbalance           
                                                          
     inhibitions    exclusivity       repressions         
                                                          
     rejections     terrorism         extremism           
                                                          
     threats        revenge           blockages           
                                                          
     attacks        unilateralisms    denigrations        
                                                          
     insults        judgementalism    coercion            
                                                          
     violence       violations        wars                
                                                          
     The   above   elements  of  personal   and   communal
disintegrations will often feed-back in negative-ways  ---
in  the absence of many elements of healthy-relationships;
e.g.,    in   the  absence  of:   regrets,    confessions,
forgiveness, healing,   peacemaking,  conflict-resolution,
tolerance,    discernment,   clarifications,   and   other
complementary  realities.  Recognizing these patterns  can
play an important role in facilitating and promoting  both
personal and communal integrity in all communities.       
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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