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  %DOMINEERING SUPPORTERS DOMINATION SYSTEM LAWYERS+021221
 %EYES PERSPECTIVES ATTITUDES PRESCRIPTIONS COMMAND+021221
    %PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS COMMANDMENTS TOOLS+021221
   %ABUSERS SEXUALITY INTIMACY VULNERABILITY POORER+021221
    %MUTUAL BALANCE UNJUST UNFAIR UNKIND GAMES LIES+021221
    %FREEDOM CHOOSE LIBERATION INDEPENDENCE LIBERAL 021221
                                                          
     In the eyes of domineering supporters of             
      "The Domination System" --- all scriptures, laws,   
        prescriptions, proscriptions, commandments, etc.  
         are tools which are available to them to use and 
          abuse in their efforts to dominate/control      
           those people who are more vulnerable than they 
            themselves are.                               
                                                          
              Domineering people cannot succeed at their  
               collusive games of mutual self deception if
                they are honest, truthful, humble, kind,  
                 gracious, civil, hospitable, etc.  They  
                  use and abuse traditional truths/rules  
                   as servants of their own new rules that
                    they invent on a case by case basis.  
                                                          
     There is nothing that can be gained in any efforts to
      beat domineering people at their unfair kinds of    
       games --- for to we must surrender our integrities 
        to even begin playing their unfair kinds of games.
         To survive with integrity we must avoid playing  
          their kinds of games according to their kinds   
           of unkind and unfair rules.  If we accept their
            assumption/attitude that domination is the    
             goal of the game --- we and they lose any    
              personal and communal integrities we have.  
               God did not create people to be controlled,
                dominated or programmed by anyone in any  
                 way.                                     
                                                          
                  The significance & meaning of humans and
                   their relationships depends essentially
                    upon their freedom to choose with whom
                     to become involved in significant and
                      meaningful relationships which are  
                       open, honest, truthful, humble,    
                        kind, gracious, civil, hospitable,
                         gentle, mutual and balanced ---  
                          so long as they cooperate in    
                           building mutually satisfactory 
                            relationships in Love without 
                             coercion, violence or any    
                              form of arrogance or        
                               dishonesty.                
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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