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  %HUMANE RELATIONSHIPS CREATED DEFINED MADE RITUAL+021119
  %INFORMAL PROCEDURE DECLARATION PATTERN WORK LOVE+021119
   %HOSTILITY ANGER RAGE REVENGE ATTACK CONTENTIOUS 021119
                                                          
     Our  essential human relationships are  not  created,
defined,   or  made  by a  ritual,   formal  procedure  or
declaration;    but rather by the long  term   patterns of
how we as participants in our own human relationships work
with,  relate to, and respond to each other.              
                                                          
                                                          
     The  natures  of our human  relationships  are  often
revealed by how  we the participants feel,  think and talk
about each other;  i.e.,  by the natures of our  emotional
relationships and inter-actions/responses --- more so than
by  any  formal declarations and/or statements about  each
other made by anybody.                                    
                                                          
     Human relationships  are often  revealed  by what the
participants  take  for granted,  and by what  they do not
spend time on;   as much as by what they do spend time and
energy on in cooperative and/or contentious interactions. 
                                                          
     Human  relationships  are  revealed  by   how   much:
hostility,   grace,   coercion,   cooperation,    attacks,
gentleness, coercion, and civility ---  play central roles
in the interactions of the participants.                  
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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