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  %DOMINEERING PEOPLE FOCUS EXCLUSIVELY TRADITIONAL+021112
%LAWS RULES REGULATIONS COMMANDMENTS ATTENTION LOVE+021112
  %OWNERS DESIRES HOPES ASPIRATIONS FEARS ANXIETIES+021112
  %VISIONS INSPIRATIONS INTERESTS SPECIAL INTERESTS+021112
  %QUESTION UTILITY DOMINANT CONTROLLERS VULNERABLE+021112
  %COLLUSIONS ADDICTIONS CODEPENDENT SUPPORTERS SIN 021112
                                                          
     Why  is it that many domineering people focus  almost
exclusively  upon traditional laws,  rules,   regulations,
commandments, etc. ---  and rarely grant much attention to
people's  own:   desires,   hopes,   aspirations,   fears,
experiences, anxieties, visions, inspirations,  interests,
etc?                                                      
                                                          
     Might   it  be  that  laws,    rules,    regulations,
commandments,  etc.  are far more useful as means by which
to  dominate/control  people ---  than are  people's  own:
desires,    hopes,    aspirations,   fears,   experiences,
anxieties,  visions,  inspirations, interests, etc?    The
latter   cannot  be  truly  manipulated   or   controlled;
whereas the  former  can  be manipulated  and  controlled.
It  is  a  question of utility within   efforts   to   be-
dominant  and  in-control.      Many  domineering   people
are  pragmatic  and  looking   for  tools which   can   be
used/abused  in dominating   and   controlling  vulnerable
people   to   the  advantage of  the  domineering  people.
Dishonesty  is  very useful and is  used  to  conceal  the
motivations  and  methods  of the domineering people   ---
with the pretense that the domineering people are  working
to   promote  legitimate  law-and-order  in  the  face  of
improper threats to law-and-order.                        
                                                          
                                                          
     Anybody  who  truly wants to facilitate  and  promote
authenticity,   personal integrity and communal  integrity
can do so only within the context of dealing honestly with
the above realities.                                      
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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