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 %PURITANICAL DOMINEERING PEOPLE RESPONSIBILITY SIN+021023
 %FANTASIES SEXUAL ACTIVITIES JACK JILL MIGHT POWER+021023
 %PREVENT AVOID SUSPECT FAITHLESS NONCONFORMITY GOD+021023
 %PROJECTION UPON SELF OTHER HEAVEN ASSIGNED DUTIES+021023
   %PRIVACY RIGHTS INTIMACY ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT+021023
 %ILLNESS DISEASE MENTAL SUSPICION ENVY CONTROLLERS 021023
                                                          
     Puritanical  domineering  people  often  believe  and
behave  as  if  it  is  each  person's  responsibility  to
constrain  others'  freedom to engage in  fantasies  about
sexual   activities.      For example:  Jack feels that it
is Jill's  responsibility  to  constrain  Jack's   freedom
to  engage   in  fantasies about the possibility  of  Jill
engaging in sexual activities  which do  not involve Jack.
Jill MUST  successfully engage  in efforts  to  keep  Jack
from  feeling  free  to  think that Jill  just   might  be
engaging in sexual activities which do  not involve Jack. 
                                                          
     Jack  is  unwilling to accept responsibility for  his
own sexual fantasies.                                     
                                                          
     Jack  projects his difficulties with managing his own
sexual fantasies upon Jill, pretending that Jill should be
doing  a  better job of keeping him from yielding  to  the
temptation  to fantasize about what sexual activities Jill
just might be engaging in.    If she fails in her assigned
management duties  she  is judged to have been engaging in
the    sexual   activities   which  Jack   found   himself
fantasizing that   she just might be engaging in.     When
Jack fails,  Jill cannot win.                             
                                                          
     Jack   presumes  that  other  people's  lives  should
revolve around his own life ---  as if he were the  center
of their world.  Jack is narcissistic,  and domineering in
how he gives expression to his narcissism.                
                                                          
     Jack  is  ill-at-ease  with  human/humane  sexuality.
Jack is a victim of a puritanical disease related to human
sexuality.                                                
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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