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 %DOMINEERING PEOPLE PROJECT BLAME SHAME GUILD AWAY+021010
  %SELF OTHER EMBARRASS OPEN HONEST EXPOSURE HONEST+021010
 %LOVERS REVELATION DISCERNMENT UNRESOLVED INTERNAL+021010
 %INTROJECTED CONFLICTS VIOLENCE COLLUSIONS FAILURE 021010
                                                          
     Domineering  people  often project  blame  for  their
difficulties and embarrassments away from  themselves  ---
and   toward     other   people  ---    whose    behaviors
embarrass   the  domineering   people  by  reminding  them
of  their   own unresolved   internal conflicts ---  which
are   unresolved  because  the domineering people are  not
being  honest  with themselves   and/or  others.       The
reason   that  lovers embarrass  the  domineering   people
is   that  the  lovers'  behaviors are open and honest ---
and they thereby set up a contrast between the domineering
peoples'   dishonest ways of living ---  and the open  and
honest ways of the lovers.                                
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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