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   %DOMINATION SYSTEM PARADIGM SENSITIVITY SYMPATHY+021007
 %EMPATHY COOPERATION WORSHIP DOMINANCE CONTROLLERS+021007
  %IDOLATRY EMOTIONS DESIRES HOPES ASPIRATIONS LOVE+021007
%FRUSTRATION ANGER RAGE REVENGE FAITHFUL HUMANE SIN+021007
 %FREEDOM LIBERATION HEALING RECONCILIATION LABELED+021007
 %IDEAL FORMS CONFORMITY UNITY FELLOWSHIP OBEDIENCE 021007
                                                          
     Why are domineering people so lacking in sensitivity,
sympathy  and empathy?    Because they  worship dominance,
control   and  manipulative  considerations  ---   to  the
exclusion   of  sympathetic  consideration   of   people's
emotions,  desires,   hopes and aspirations.   Domineering
people are idolaters.   To be faithful  to "The Domination
System"      domineering    people  must   sacrifice   all
sympathetic  considerations  of  human emotions,  desires,
hope and aspirations ---  in order to be free  to  control
and dominate those who  are  labeled  as enemies.         
                                                          
     Domineering  people must desensitize themselves,   as
well  as desensitize others ---  in order to  be  faithful
worshipers of "The Domination System".  Faithful servants 
of  "The Domination System"  are not free to be humane  in
any  way which will promote and facilitate  both  personal
and communal integrity.                                   
                                                          
     What   then   guides  the  behaviors   of   different
domineering people?   They  are  guided by their different
conceptions  of  them  ideal forms of:   ideas,    ideals,
values, principles, and patterns of behavior!   They agree
that there must be conformity.    They do not agree on the
ideal form which should dominate conformity.    They agree
that it is proper to use coercion, dishonesty,  deception,
appearances and violence to promote conformity.   Yet they
disagree on  who  should be in control of their choices of
ideal forms.   Under the  rules of their paradigm they are
predestined to  be in conflict with different  domineering
people   who  are  in  their  own  ways  worshipping  "The
Domination  System".     They have no means  by  which  to
resolve  their  conflicts;   except through  the use of  a
preponderance of coercion,  force and violence.   They are
predestined to engage in tragic conflicts by  their choice
of what they worship in thoughtless and insensitive  ways.
Personal   and   communal  integrity  are   beyond   their
conceptions and reaches.                                  
                                                          
     Because   domineering   people  do   not   give   any
significant/meaningful  consideration  to  other  people's
emotions, desires,  hopes and aspirations ---  they remain
ignorant about all such things to which  they do  not give
any significant consideration.    In ignorance they cannot
have much influence over  ignored "things",  and certainly
they cannot control/dominate what they do not know.       
                                                          
     Scientists  and  engineers  cannot  influence  and/or
control the positions, orientations and motions of objects
---   without having studied the regular patterns  in  how
they  interact  with  each other.     Because  domineering
people  have  NOT given sympathetic consideration  to  how
humans and their emotions,  desires, hopes and aspirations
interact with each other ---  they deceive themselves when
they  think  that  they can influence and/or  control  any
unfamiliar  people's    emotions,      desires,     hopes,
aspirations,          relationships,            behaviors,
communications,     beliefs,  convictions,     intentions,
etc.      Domineering   people certainly  cannot   control
the  ways in which other  people internally   respond   to
arrogance,     self-righteousness,  coercion,   insolence,
attacks,   violence,  and alienation ---especially in  the
absence  of  any understanding on the part of  domineering
people.                                                   
                                                          
     Domineering  people are "infected"  with a common set
of domineering:  attitudes, assumptions, beliefs,  ideals,
values,  principles,  goals,  priorities,  perceptions and
judgments ---  which they  "pass on"  to young people  who
grow  up  to be another generation of domineering  people.
Domineering  people are victims of,  and carriers  of,   a
"dis-ease"  which they  pass  on  through their behaviors,
communications,   judgments,  etc.     It is difficult for
victims  of domination NOT to "catch"  the "dis-ease"   of
being  domineering people.    It is only those people  who
through  miracles come to truly love each other ---    who
are sometimes immune to the "dis-ease" of domination.     
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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