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  %BLAME SHAME GUILT PUNISHMENT UNHEALTHY UNHELPFUL+020913
%DOMINEERING DOMINATION SYSTEM ABUSE SEXUAL DESIRES+020913
%POOR VULNERABLE PEOPLE INJUSTICE POWER CONCENTRATE+020913
%ARTIFICIAL UN-NATURAL LAWS NATURE DESCRIPTIONS GOD+020913
%PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS DEMANDS COLLUSIONS SIN+020913
%ABSENCE LACK EXCLUSIVITY PARADOX IDOLATRY FALSE ME 020913
                                                          
     Human   experiences  of  blame,   shame,   guilt  and
punishment   are  healthy  and  helpful  only  when   such
experiences  lead  people  to take  appropriate  steps  to
mitigate  the  experiences.    When such  experiences  are
"free-floating",  disconnected,  and do not lead people to
take  appropriate steps to mitigate the  experiences  --- 
the experiences are usually NOT HEALTHY and NOT HELPFUL.  
                                                          
     Domineering  people are NOT HELPFUL when they promote
and/or facilitate human experiences of blame, shame, guilt
and/or  punishment ---  which do not lead to people taking
appropriate  steps to mitigate those experiences.     Such
promotions  and  facilitations  of  human  experiences  of
blame,  shame, guilt and/or punishment may be (consciously
and/or unconsciously) part of domineering people's ways of
trying to be dominant,  in-control,  superior,  in-charge,
and   faithful   to  "The  Domination   System".      Such
domineering ways are NOT HEALTHY and NOT HELPFUL.         
                                                          
     For  people  who are victims of domineering  people's
efforts to be dominant,  in-control, superior,  in charge,
and  faithful to "The Domination System"   ---  it  is  an
ultimate challenge to discern the dis-eased nature of such
efforts,   to  acknowledge  their  dis-eased  nature,   to
understand their dis-eased nature, to transcend their dis-
eased   nature,   and  to    help   their   community   do
likewise    in   gracious,  integrative and healing  ways.
Such  healthy  and   helpful ways are unlikely  to  entail
domination,   controls,  being-superior,  being-in-charge,
etc.   "Catching" a  disease and becoming   dis-eased   is
unlikely  to  help  anybody  to acknowledge,   understand,
transcend,    or  heal the disease.  On  the  other  hand,
domineering  people  are likely to object strenuously  (in
some hidden ways) to any healthy and helpful ways in which
victims  of  unhealthy  blame,    shame,     guilt  and/or
punishment   search  for:    healing,      reconciliation,
conflict-resolution,   sanctuaries,  honesty and integrity
in trying to be themselves,  whole and healthy ---  in the
ways of Love and true/healthy lovers.                     
                                                          
     In the absence of reconciliation, healing,  conflict-
resolution,  sanctuaries, honesty and integrity ---  there
is  no  reason to show respect,  honor or support for  any
efforts which engender blame, shame, guilt or punishments;
for  such efforts under such circumstances are  likely  to
guided by "The  Domination  System"   and  its            
supporters.                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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