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 %TABOO PLEASURES PURPOSE REWARDS OBEDIENCE CONFORM+020830
%DOMINATION SYSTEM DEFENSE SHIELD PROTECT COLLUSION+020830
%SEXUAL BALANCE MUTUAL HONEST ACKNOWLEDGEMENT ENJOY+020830
%BEING TOGETHER COOPERATION DESIRE FEAR HOPE DREAMS+020830
 %FANTASIES PURITANICAL PURITY EXCLUSION ACCEPTANCE+020830
   %EXCOMMUNICATION ULTIMATE CONCERN FAMILY SECRETS 020830
                                                          
     What  about  taboo pleasures?   Why are  they  taboo?
What purposes do the taboos serve?    Might at least  some
of  the   taboos   be   in   place   as   part   of   "The
Domination  System's"   defense-shield;    protecting  our
collusive  games of   mutual  self  deception  which   are
central  to  our maintenance of "The Domination System?"  
                                                          
     A  fair  fraction  of  sexual pleasure is  rooted  in
balanced, mutual and honest ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS (by those who
are involved in a pattern of sexual relationships):       
                                                          
1.  That they enjoy being together in cooperation.        
                                                          
2.  of what they desire for themselves and each other.    
                                                          
3.  of what they fear about themselves and each other.    
                                                          
4.  of what are their hopes, dreams and fantasies.        
                                                          
5.  of what is central to their kinds of integrities.     
                                                          
     The  "A",    "B",    "C"   of puritanical   "purity" 
in  maintaining  control  over sexual  pleasures  are  as 
follows:                                                  
                                                          
     "A"  In the  absence  of the above balanced,   mutual
and  honest   acknowledgements   ---   sexual pleasure  is
muted, repressed,   hidden,   perverted,   and  associated
with disintegrative behaviors and tendencies.             
                                                          
     "B"    In  the   presence   of  the  above  balanced,
mutual  and  honest  acknowledgements  ---    the  "family
secrets"   of "The Domination System"   and its  collusive
games  of  mutual  self deception ---  are  likely  to  be
detected by true lovers who are seeking  to  promote   and
facilitate  both  personal  and communal integrities.     
                                                          
     "C"  The prevention of such detection is the ULTIMATE
CONCERN  of the domineering  supporters of "The Domination
System"   ---   so in idolatrous ways people dominate true
lovers  who  are motivated  by  Love    to  enjoy    truly
integrative sexual relationships.   Domination seems to be
essential to law and order as  law and order are conceived
by domineering people.                                    
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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