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 %RELIGIOUS LEADER TRUST RIGHTEOUS CLINGING CONTROL+020829
  %LETTING-GO DISOBEDIENCE DISORDER DAMNATION DEVIL+020829
  %AFFIRM HEALTHY INTIMACY LOVE SEXUALITY CERTAINTY+020829
   %SUPERIORITY INFERIORITY VULNERABILITY SALVATION 020829
                                                          
     Religious  leaders  often place their trust in  being
RIGHT, doing RIGHT and being RIGHTeous through clinging to
CONTROL and  being in  CONTROL  with  GOOD CONTROLS.    To
such religious leaders LETTING-GO  of control,   certainty
and/or superiority is forbidden; for such  LETTING-GO will
lead to certain  disobedience,   dis-order and  damnation.
Such religious   leaders  find   it  impossible  to  truly
affirm healthy:  intimacy,  love or sexuality ---  for all
three   entail  LETTING-GO  of  control,   certainty   and
superiority.                                              
                                                          
     People who are certain that salvation entails control
of individual human: desires, hopes, aspirations, visions,
fantasies, initiatives, thoughts, dreams and pleasures ---
are   frequently   suspicious   of:   lovers,    servants,
reconcilers,    peacemakers,   conflict-resolution,    and
spontaneity ---  which entail  LETTING-GO   of    controls
about which   they  have ULTIMATE-CONCERNS   and  SPECIAL-
INTEREST.  They cannot authentically  LET-GO or LET-OTHERS
LET-GO   and  be   true to themselves  and  others  within
intimate,    loving and/or  sexual relationships;      ---
for  anyone   doing  so  would    entail   LETTING-GO   of
control,   certainty   and superiority.                   
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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