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    %BUILDING HEALTHY BALANCED HUMANE RELATIONSHIPS+020805
    %UNILATERAL ACHIEVEMENT SERVICE HONEST DIALOGUE+020805
   %COOPERATION INCOMPLETE GROW CHANGE TRANSACTIONS+020805
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     Building  healthy  relationships entails  cooperative
work   on   the  part of the participants  within  growing
and changing relationships.   Incomplete relationships are
limited to the following kinds of "transactions":         
                                                          
     1.  Jack uses Jill without Jill's cooperation.       
     2.  Jack uses Jill with Jill's reluctant cooperation.
     3.  Jack uses Jill with Jill's willing cooperation.  
     4.  Jack and Jill use each other in balanced ways.   
     5.  Jack and Jill are fulfilling a contract.         
     6.  Jack and Jill are learning to trust each other.  
     7.  Jack and Jill are almost in open/honest dialogue.
     8.  Jack and Jill are building a useful relationship.
     9.  Jack and Jill preach at each other.              
    10.  Jill listens to Jack, but not vice versa.        
    11.  Jack and Jill triangulate with Jane or John.     
    12.  Jack and Jill love to fight with each other.     
                                                          
     People  who  are  involved  in  the  above  kinds  of
transactions  are  hardly aware of the subtleties of  deep
and healthy human  relationships which transcend the above
kinds   of  transactions.   Many immature relationships of
which are unilateral ---not balanced and/or mutual.       
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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