This is http://www.essayz.com/b0208041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DEFENSIVE INSECURITY INVULNERABILITY DOMINATION+020804 %SYSTEMIC DILEMMAS TRAGEDIES INTIMATE SEXUALITY+020804 %FRIENDSHIP DIALOGUE OPEN HONESTY UNINHIBITED SIN+020804 %PROTECTION NETWORKS CODEPENDENT ADDICTS COLLUSION 020804 Defensiveness, insecurity, vulnerability and "The Domination System" are intimately related/connected. People who are insecure/defensive do not dare be vulnerable or involved in intimate relationships which entail healthy vulnerability. Loyal defenders of "The Domination System" are ULTIMATELY CONCERNED with protecting "The Domination System" from exposure to the terrifying consequences of: honesty, intimacy, vulnerability and the works-of-Love. For the above reasons, loyal defenders of "The Domination System" must not, and cannot, think carefully about healthy: intimacy, friendships, sexuality and dialogue --- for they and intimately related other pleasures are taboo/forbidden for loyalists-on-guard at all times against traitorous violations of the unspoken rules of the essential collusions of "The Powers That Be." (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================