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%PEOPLE DIFFER PROPER GROUNDS PRIDE SELF ESTEEM SIN+020617
%DISCRETIONARY CREATIVITY INITIATIVES SCRIPTED PLAY+020617
 %PERMISSION MANDATE COMMAND PRESCRIPTION FORBIDDEN+020617
 %EXCEPTION PRIDE CONCEIT DYSFUNCTIONAL INTEGRATIVE+020617
%PERFECTION IMPURITY MISTAKES ERRORS CORRECT RIGHTS 020617
                                                          
     People  differ  in  regards to what  they  regard  as
       proper  grounds for pride,  self-esteem,   conceit,
         arrogance, etc.    Many grounds are dysfunctional
           and  disintegative;   concealing their natures.
             Other grounds are functional and integrative;
               clarifying and revealing their natures.    
                                                          
     Dysfunctional  and disintegrative grounds often  have
       to do with:                                        
                                                          
         1.  Identifying and exposing imperfections,      
             impurities, mistakes, errors; and            
             unilaterally correcting                      
             them wherever they are found.                
                                                          
         2.  Achieving for self and other perfection,     
             purity, flawlessness, virtue; and never      
             needing correction.                          
                                                          
         3.  Concealing collusions, addictions and/or     
             codependent patterns of support.             
                                                          
     Functional and integrative grounds usually have to   
       do with:                                           
                                                          
         1.  Facilitating open and honest dialogue about: 
             personal relationships, possibilities,       
             challenges, hopes, aspirations, desires, etc.
                                                          
         2.  Facilitating and promoting cooperation in    
             efforts to meet basic human needs in just    
             and equitable ways --- which promote and     
             facilitate both personal and communal        
             integrities.                                 
                                                          
         3.  Discerning, describing and dealing honestly  
             with  tendencies  to  fall into  patterns  of
             disintegrative  collusions,   addictions  and
             codependent support.                         
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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