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  %PRESENCE PRESENTATION SAYING HELLO APPROACH LOVE 020609
                                                          
     Domineering people often FAIL:                       
                                                          
     1.  To know and acknowledge the importance of people 
         freely choosing to be TRULY present with them:   
                                                          
     2.  Because they do not acknowledge that other people
         are always free to choose to NOT be TRULY present
         with them when they are coerced to be physically 
         present with them.                               
                                                          
     3.  To acknowledge that what is important to them is 
         the free choice of admired people to be present  
         with them --- because of non-manipulated desires 
         which are beyond human controls.                 
                                                          
     4.    To  acknowledge  that  the  TRUE  presence   of
authentic people cannot be controlled in any way which has
integrity.                                                
                                                          
     5.  To acknowledge that people of integrity cannot   
         be controlled by anyone with integrity.          
                                                          
     6.   Because    they   cannot   be  honest  about: 1.
         Their   failures   to  deal  honestly  with   the
         qualities  of human presences and  absences,   2.
         Domination  and   its   tragic   consequences, 3.
         Presence --- which  is  essential to personal and
         communal integrities of all humane kinds.        
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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