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  %DISCOUNT OBJECTIONS STOP ARREST INHIBIT INTIMACY+020513
 %EMBARRASS DISCOMFORT FEAR DIVERSE OBJECTION LOVER+020513
%STANDING WITHIN COURT LAW SUIT HARMED THREATEN SIN+020513
 %INTEGRATION HEALTH HONESTY BALANCE MUTUALITY HEAL 020513
                                                          
     Upon what healthy ground may/should healthy people   
       discount objections which some people bring --- to 
         try to stop, arrest, inhibit & discount the      
           friendships/intimacies of other people         
             that embarrass/discomfort those              
               people who bring the objections?           
                 Might the following be healthy           
                   grounds/occasions?                     
                                                          
     1.  When the objectors do not have legitimate        
         "standing"; e.g., they have not truly been       
         harmed or threatened in any significant way      
         due to their geographic/temporal and/or          
         relational "distances" from those about whom     
         they object.                                     
                                                          
     2.  When the objectors have not demonstrated any     
         significant dedication to: personal integrity,   
         communal integrity, civility, peacemaking,       
         honesty, balance, mutuality, healing, etc.       
                                                          
     3.  When the objections are clearly capricious,      
         prejudicial and/or arbitrary.                    
                                                          
     4.  When the objections are not well grounded in     
         previously agreed upon mutual understandings,    
         contracts, promises, covenants, laws,            
         constitutions, etc.                              
                                                          
     5.  When the objectors are recognized by duly        
         certified medical authorities to be suffering    
         from well known diseases which lead them into    
         dysfunctional relationships with other people.   
                                                          
     6.  When there are demonstrable ulterior motives     
         which are leading the objectors to raise their   
         objections --- without giving due consideration  
         to the integrities of other individuals and      
         communities.                                     
                                                          
     7.  When the objectors have demonstrated patterns of 
         intolerance towards healthy diversity --- and of 
         demanding  conformity that would reduce diversity
         and tolerance toward  the  creating  of  new  ---
         ideas,    images,    visions,    inventions   and
         relationships --- which include possibilities for
         new    kinds    of    personal    and    communal
         integrations/integrities.                        
                                                          
     8.  When the objectors have demonstrated patterns    
         of preoccupation with issues of control and/or of
         domination --- which many healthy people do not  
         welcome and are unwilling to graciously tolerate.
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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