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  %ESSENCE LOVE BUILDING EXPAND SANCTUARY COMMUNITY+020501
  %IMAGINING RENEWING INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS SECURE+020501
  %SAFELY VULNERABLE EXCHANGE GIFTS COOPERATIVE GOD+020501
 %COMPLEMENTARY WAYS BALANCE INTEGRATIVE FOUNDATION+020501
    %WELCOME HOSPITALITY ACCEPT COMPLEMENTARY KINDS+020501
   %DIFFERENT PEOPLE IDEALS VALUES DEMONSTRATE ROLE 020501
                                                          
     The essence of Love is the building of expanding     
       sanctuary communities --- which entails:           
                                                          
     1.  Imagining, image-ing, new/renewing intimate      
           relationships which are characterized by:      
             knowing security as being safely vulnerable, 
               exchanging gifts in safe vulnerability,    
                 working cooperatively for integration;   
                   seeking complementary ways to balance  
                     essential-integrative-foundations as 
                       keys to personal/communal health.  
                                                          
     2.  Being more focused upon welcoming complementary  
           kinds of different people into the expanding   
             sanctuary community --- than upon purifying  
               exclusive-communities through the use of   
                 and abuse of increasingly high standards 
                   for inclusion/exclusion, of qualified  
                     acceptable members of the-chosen-few 
                       who are right, proper, good, loyal 
                         and safe to be with when we are  
                           feeling insecure & vulnerable. 
                                                          
     3.  Being more focused upon demonstrating personal   
           and communal integrity within healthy honest   
             relationships --- than upon being sure that  
               we as individuals are right, righteous,    
                 properly-conformed, loyal, and in        
                   command of absolute: truths,           
                     laws, judgements & powers;           
                       i.e., in control of our            
                         and each other's                 
                           destinies with                 
                             Our God as                   
                               One Sure                   
                                 Saver;                   
                                  Three                   
                                    We                    
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                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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