This is http://www.essayz.com/b0203041.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISCERN MOTIVATIONS SOURCES GUIDANCE WORKERS OPEN+020304 %HONEST LOVERS DIFFERING PEOPLE TRUTHS DOMINATION+020304 %SYSTEM KNOWLEDGE GOOD DEVILS HIDE CONCEAL REPRESS+020304 %ABUSE CONFUSE PROHIBIT CONFOUND WEAKEN VULNERABLE+020304 %TECHNOCRATIC DOUBLE BINDS MILITARY SECURITY ADDICT 020304 It is often difficult to discern the motivations and sources of guidance for various kinds of work. We need to work to promote and facilitate such discernment in open, honest and reliable ways. The works of Love include the creation of sanctuaries within which all differing people can become aware of, and share with each other, truths which domineering supporters of The Domination System seek to: hide, conceal, repress, suppress, abuse, confuse, pervert, prohibit, convert, confound, throw-out, put-out, weaken, & otherwise render impotent via taboos. Domineering supporters of The Domination System will be embarrassed and troubled by those truths which they work hard, dishonestly, abusively and secretly to: hide, conceal, repress, suppress, abuse, confuse, pervert, prohibit, convert, confound, throw-out, put-out, weaken, & otherwise render impotent via taboos. Such embarrassment may yield fruits of repentance and reconciliation! Love works NOT to: hide, conceal, repress, suppress, abuse, confuse, pervert, prohibit, convert, confound, throw-out, put-out, weaken, or otherwise render impotent via taboos --- any truth or true/authentic person which/who, works as gently and graciously as possible, to promote and facilitate true repentance and reconciliation all around. Love works NOT to: abuse any truth or truly authentic person & so not attack, harm, or alienate any person or authentic revelation, or any complementary truths/insights. Love works towards inclusion and integration; not towards exclusion or alienation. Faithful/loyal supporters of "The Domination System" focus upon isolated violations by isolated individuals of isolated laws, rules, etc. Depending upon such a focus is: simple, in keeping with separations/alienation, less difficult than cooperation and/or integration, less likely to expose their patterns of dishonesty and alienation; and so unlikely to undermine apparent kinds of security/invulnerability. Lovers work to facilitate and promote many kinds of personal and communal integrities; by focusing upon rich patterns of openness, honesty, authenticity, dialogue, mutuality, balance and cooperation. Such efforts are far more difficult to coordinate, because they entail many kinds of people with differing perceptions of reality and of each other; and all of the many relations among differing members of the communities. Lovers need to be aware of and beware of how domineering people focus attention narrowly upon isolated people violating their isolated narrow rules and regulations --- while concealing an extensive pattern of carefully neglecting a wide range of disintegrative sins-of- omission which are carefully hidden through collusive games of mutual self deception, addictions and faithful codependent supporters. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================