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   %SEEK FIND DREAM ENVISION REVEAL SELF OTHERS SIN+020301
 %DOMINATE CONTROL INVOLVEMENT CHARACTERISTICS LOVE+020301
  %LETTING GOING BALANCE KINDNESS GENTLENESS MUTUAL+020301
  %TOGETHER COOPERATION COMPLEMENTARY IDEALS VALUES+020301
  %RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUALS SUPERIOR SALVATION GOD+020301
 %THEOLOGY RITUALS SCRIPTURES STANDARDS ACHIEVEMENT 020301
                                                          
     "Seek and ye shall find" applies to the kinds of     
        RELATIONSHIPS which we: envision, dream-of,       
          dream-about, desire, want, believe-in, etc.     
                                                          
     If we seek to be dominant over other people ---      
       we will find ourselves involved in relations       
         which are characterized by: domination,          
           coercion, manipulation, violence               
             and all that comes with such                 
               RELATIONAL characteristics;                
                 whether or not we are                    
                   in control or not.                     
                                                          
     If we seek to be involved in open and honest kinds   
       of relationships which are characterized by:       
         kindness, balance, gentleness, mutuality,        
           non-violence, creativity, and all that         
             comes with such RELATIONAL aspects ---       
               of healthy patterns of being               
                 together in cooperative                  
                   efforts to demonstrate                 
                     diverse  kinds  of                   
                       personal and                       
                         communal                         
                           integrity; we will             
                             find ourselves within        
                               such kind RELATIONSHIPS -  
                                 without having to be     
                                   in control of them,    
                                     others, or even of   
                                       ourselves in Love. 
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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