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  %INCLUSIVE EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS NEIGHBORS LOVE+020128
   %HEALTHY INTEGRITIES DEFENSIVE INSECURITY COERCE+020128
  %HEALTHY CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKING CIVILITY+020128
   %CLUBS GANGS CONGREGATION ARMIES TERRORISTS WARS 020128
                                                          
     Some of our relationships are defined by             
       whom we include; other of our relationships by     
         whom we exclude.  They are different!            
                                                          
     Exclusive-relationships are rarely as healthy as     
       Inclusive-relationships; e.g., some tend to be     
         defensive, insecure, coercive and alienative.    
                                                          
     Inclusive-relationships are usually more healthy;    
       e.g., they tend to demonstrate gracious            
         conflict-resolution, peacemaking & civility.     
                                                          
     People who are involved in exclusive relationships   
       usually congregate in exclusive: congregations,    
         clubs, neighborhoods, stores and businesses.     
                                                          
     People who are involved in inclusive relationships   
       usually congregate in inclusive: congregations,    
         clubs, neighborhoods, stores and businesses ---  
           which are working cooperatively to facilitate  
             and promote civility, peacemaking and        
               true conflict-resolution-for the benefit   
                 of all who are willing to work with      
                   each other cooperatively in ways which 
                     give each the opportunity to fulfill 
                       their potentials to contribute to  
                         the integrities of the members   
                           and and communities.           
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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