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    %SUCCESSFUL MODERATORS RECOGNIZED HOW WAYS WALK+020102
    %MAINTAIN BALANCE BETWEEN TOGETHER MUTUAL GOODS+020102
 %GODS SINS DEVILS ENEMIES IDEALS VALUES PRINCIPLES+020102
   %IMPORTANT ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS PERSONAL UNIQUE+020102
  %EXCLUSIVE INCLUSIVE NEIGHBORS SERVANTS SALVATION+020102
  %EXTREMISTS TERRORISTS FUNDAMENTALISTS WAR ARMIES 020102
                                                          
        Successful true-moderators may be recognized by   
how they:                                                 
                                                          
     1.  Successfully maintain balance between            
           mutually important and truly complementary     
             ideals/values --- even when most passionate  
               about each person and/or ideal/value which 
                 they see as very important --- as        
                   essential foundations for both         
                     personal and communal integrity.     
                                                          
     2.  Are dedicated to moderating mutually exclusive-  
           passions for complementary-ideals/values.      
                                                          
     3.  Are moderate in dealing with extremists --- who  
           have not yet learned to recognize the best     
             ways in which to affirm complementary-ideals 
               and/or values --- which appear to be       
                 mutually exclusive; i.e., contradictory. 
                                                          
     4.  Are NOT caught up into contentious and/or        
           violent conflicts between domineering people   
             who seek to achieve security for themselves  
               and/or their "friends" --- at the expense  
                 of more vulnerable people who are viewed 
                   as members of a dangerous enemy army.  
                                                          
     5.  Are secure in being unique as who they are;      
           as individuals who are thoroughly integrated   
             into their diverse communities which         
               demonstrate integrity in diverse ways.     
                                                          
     6.  Work to create and maintain sanctuaries wherein  
           diverse people demonstrate diverse forms of    
             personal and communal integrities ---        
               enjoying being together --- knowing        
                 true security as the freedom to be       
                   safely vulnerable in open and honest   
                     intimate relationships with Love.    
                                                          
     7.  Practice the Presence of God as Humble Servants  
           of each other person whom they know as their   
             neighbor who is: vulnerable, poor, thirsty,  
               hungry, homeless, naked, weak, dis-eased,  
                 ill-at-ease, imprisoned, double-bound,   
                   and/or complementary to themself.      
                                                          
                                  Shalom                  
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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