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   %CONTENSIONS CONFLICTS LOVERS SUPPORTERS NATURES+010721
  %DOMINATION SYSTEM TECHNOCRATS DIFFERENCES DEVILS+010721
 %APPROACHING QUESTIONS ATTITUDES ASSUMPTIONS LOVER+010721
  %WAR CONFLICT TERRORISM CONTROL POWERS CORRUPTION+010721
  %PRINCIPALITIES ANGELS GOVERNMENT KINGS COURT SIN+010721
   %RESOLUTION PEACEMAKERS INTIMACY VULNERABLE SAFE 010721
                                                          
     To   resolve  the  tensions,   con-tensions,    and  
conflicts   between   lovers  and  supporters  of   "The  
Domination System"  ---  we need to recognize the nature  
of the differences between their ways of approaching:     
                                                          
     situations,                                          
                                                          
        each other,                                       
                                                          
          personal relationships, and                     
                                                          
            the framing of questions.                     
                                                          
     Lovers  and dominators approach  situations,     each
other,     personal  relationships  and  the  framing   of
questions ---    with different palettes of attitudes  and
assumptions.                                              
                                                          
        Lovers have learned how to INTUIT which people    
        are worthy of honor, respect and trust ---        
                                                          
           in terms of how people enter into and          
           participate in personal relationships.         
                                                          
                                                          
        Dominators are in the HABIT of trusting:          
           laws,                                          
             orders,                                      
               prescriptions,                             
                 proscriptions,                           
                   scriptures,                            
                     formulas,                            
                       formalities,                       
                         conformity,                      
                           disciplines,                   
                             obedience,                   
                               punishments,               
                                 controls,                
                                   management,            
                                     administrators,      
                                       institutions,      
                                         systems,         
                                           coercion,      
                                             violence,    
                                               deception, 
                                                 etc.     
                                                          
     Lovers   are  seeking  to participate  in  open   and
honest   relationships  which  are   characterized   by:  
                                                          
       balance,                                           
         mutuality,                                       
           intimacy,                                      
             respect,                                     
               tolerance,                                 
                 listening,                               
                   cooperation,                           
                     creativity,                          
                       growth,                            
                         spontaneity,                     
                           reciprocity,                   
                             generosity,                  
                               gentleness,                
                                 peacemaking,             
                                   and shalom.            
                                                          
     Dominators are seeking TO BE:                        
                                                          
       dominant,                                          
         in charge,                                       
           in control,                                    
             better,                                      
               best,                                      
                 superior,                                
                   perfect,                               
                     pure,                                
                       idealistic,                        
                         unchanging,                      
                           conformed,                     
                             proper,                      
                               faithful,                  
                                 loyal,                   
                                   obedient,              
                                     right,               
                                       alike,             
                                         united,          
                                           we,            
                                            alone,        
                                              One,        
                                                1,        
                                                  I.      
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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